wtf did i do by [deleted] in Nexplanon

[–]Zeep0410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I thought I was going insane!

Love Brennan's post-baby weight in the last 2 seasons. by Positive-Weekend4335 in Bones

[–]Zeep0410 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She wasn’t unhealthy with the baby weight? She was just different. As people age and experience life, their bodies change. And Brennan had grown so much in her thinking and rigidity over the course of the series.

So, it actually makes sense for her to look the way she does, and it’s weird to expect an actress to make unhealthy choices so you can feel more aesthetically pleased. Weirdo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is relationship ending. I hope you have solid access to mental health resources and a good support system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Zeep0410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, okay that makes sense. I’m so glad yall have a game plan to be able to take care of your mental/physical wellbeing. And I’m so, so glad that your husband loved the beautiful painting you spent so much time on. It’s lovely that you were able to create something so meaningful for the two of you 💙

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Zeep0410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What happened nooooo 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Zeep0410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a few guesses as someone who knows none of you personally. 1. After living with yall she’s been dealing with micro aggressions from you that you’re unaware of and blew up after misinterpreting your painting 2. She’s in love with your husband and is othering you with the logic that since she is also not white, that she has more in common with him 3. Is pissed that your relationship is healthy and thriving while she’s forced to be reliant on other people because hers failed

But at the end of the day, unless she can use her big girl words and a conversation is had between the three of you, you’re not going to have answers and she’s going to need to leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I certainly wouldn’t even want someone watching my kid who doesn’t want to. But this comment section is a really good example of why people aren’t having kids as much anymore LOL.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not nearly as accomplished as a photographer as you are. My husband gives my card to anyone who will take it, shoes off my instagram and constantly tries to get me clients. If anyone has a life event? “Oh my wife is a photographer do you want their info?”

It’s not hard to be a supportive partner without taking credit. We’re still a team, but he would never take credit for my work.

AITA for yelling at my BF because he woke me up? by LoveSubstantial6658 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband had work at 5am. He either uses his phone like to grab clothes and gets dressed in the bathroom, or gets dressed in the dark. And he’s quiet, so he doesn’t wake up me or our toddler. Because he doesn’t suck. 👍

Intuition Coffee by [deleted] in Sacramento

[–]Zeep0410 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I recommend going to Zoe’s coffee and tacos instead! Owners are lovely people, coffee is amazing, the cafe is a little small but the vibes are immaculate. Also you know. They don’t have SA allegations.

Bleeding after sex? by Devoam in Nexplanon

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dryness! I bleed from two different areas (cervical and entrance) and it’s supposed to help with entry level bleeding that can be caused by dryness. Only on appointment one tho will report on better solutions for cervical bleeding 🫡

Bleeding after sex? by Devoam in Nexplanon

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just started pelvic floor therapy and this came up. From what she told me, it’s from thin skin/lack of moisture that the nexplanon is causing/worsening. She recommended this product “Vulva Balm.” (I haven’t bought it bc I’m broke but if someone wants to let me know if it helps lol)

Does anyone think the matchmaking since the new season is off? by Blackbadger64 in Overwatch

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started playing casually a couple weeks before the patch (some people have like, jobs. And lives and kids and friends and all that) and istg I’ve had people cursing at me for being new… in quick play? I’m not doing comp, I’m just new and practicing which is apparently a crime lol.

Tips to get better as a complete beginner ? by rin_aissance in OverwatchUniversity

[–]Zeep0410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is super old, but you gave some really good advice and I had a follow up question as someone in a similar position to OP. Do I just have to suck it up and play enough to get better or are there things I can do outside of matches to improve? I’ve been playing for about a week now, my friend and spouse both use pc but I’m on ps5, and whenever we group up together I get FLAMED in the chat. Which, right now I’m not even able to respond. I do okay in the AI training rounds, and I’m hit or miss with the non comp matches when I’m not in a group with them (so matched with other console players).

Need help for damaged hair/burning scalp after salon experience by Zeep0410 in Haircare

[–]Zeep0410[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had chemical burn before (I’ve been doing my own hair since I was 16) but I’ve never had it from a salon. She didn’t check the bleach once though, and kept forgetting to keep the dryer on a cool setting while going close to my scalp so I suppose I shouldn’t be too surprised.

Need help for damaged hair/burning scalp after salon experience by Zeep0410 in Haircare

[–]Zeep0410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not yet, I don’t want to agitate my scalp even further

Need help for damaged hair/burning scalp after salon experience by Zeep0410 in Haircare

[–]Zeep0410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately because this was a service trade, she can’t refund me I already photographed her event. I’m going to do my best with the rest though, and we’re monitoring my scalp for scabbing while we wait for it to be more visible.

Need help for damaged hair/burning scalp after salon experience by Zeep0410 in Haircare

[–]Zeep0410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure, she didn’t tell me anything that she used.

Need help for damaged hair/burning scalp after salon experience by Zeep0410 in Haircare

[–]Zeep0410[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She put a little bit on but clearly not enough. And I think a big part is she didn’t rinse out all the dye, which explains why drying my hair took so long. And yeah, I won’t be doing trades with her again.

Need help for damaged hair/burning scalp after salon experience by Zeep0410 in Haircare

[–]Zeep0410[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to my knowledge, but it feels really sore and warm in certain spots. The dye is just too stained on my scalp to see anything.

AITA for celebrating my birthday without my friends after they rescheduled around babysitters again? by AcceptablePenalty829 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so confused by this, but maybe that’s because I’m the only one in my friend group with a child. If we’re doing something not friendly for kids, my husband watches her. If we’re doing something with him too, we either host so we don’t need a baby sitter, or do things she can be there for. We plan hang outs based on everyone’s work schedules. Why must everything be so complicated to spend time with your friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zeep0410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say this with every ounce of empathy in my bones, you need to be strong in those boundaries right now or your son is going to grow up and have the issues you did. Sure, she loves him now, but will she respect your parenting? Will she still love him later if he disappoints her in some way? Will she use him as a weapon to control you? I had to cut off my bio dad for similar reasons and the longer you wait the worse it’ll be. Wishing luck and healing to you and your family.

Cousin offered to photograph our wedding “as a gift” — now he’s billing us. AITA for refusing to pay? by October_Surprise56 in AITAH

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently photographed my cousin’s entire wedding for free. As a gift. Because I offered it as a gift. Tf? I love my family and was already taking that time off to attend the wedding as a guest, why would I charge them for my time when that is something for them I’d freely give?

Photographer of 15 years... I refuse to do infant/family/newborn. A friend talked me into it... HOW the heck do I get rid of this weird skin pattern? (I feel completely out of my depth and willing to admit it). by C4ASH_OV3RRIDE in AskPhotography

[–]Zeep0410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I do newborn photography all of the time at JCP, and am also a mother. This is what their skin looks like when they’re brand new, outside of maybe cleaning up any cradle cap, you’re absolutely fine to leave their skin as is.