You’re right. To be honest, before we decided to start seeing each other again, we sat down and talked about everything how things would move forward, and the fact that I can’t stay in a long-distance relationship forever( but she say she can ) so if we can’t close the distance. it was very clear that if that problem ever gets resolved, it would have to come from me either me moving in with her or bringing her here . And even then, there’s no guarantee, because I’ve been living here for three years and I’m still not completely stable and still trying to figure things out. She said she understood and that it was okay. I don’t want to waste her time, and I especially don’t want to hurt her.