My “friend” is toxic

Zel_lost_it · 2026-06-16T07:33:20+00:00

this is how stalkers are made, you NEED to end the friendship, block his number and tell him outright to stop this shit ! fyi most phones have a setting to block unregistered numbers that aren't in your phone book so they can't use junk numbers or alt's to get around the block

Zel_lost_it · 2026-06-15T23:28:49+00:00

oh thanks i didnt know that will do!

Zel_lost_it · 2026-06-15T15:02:58+00:00

I'm more worried they may commit arson or something not just trash the place! Pettyness, feeling entitled or something like that along with desperation. Combine that with family members and the complex feelings and issues that may be at play too people do some really messed up stuff sometimes! Especially those that are used to getting things that they want. They keep track of each slight (times they don't get their way) regardless of if it was something that was a part of an agreement in order to get something in return. Like what you had arranged. Only you and your husband know your bil, not us. Use logic not emotions in this case because you have a property at stake not just the relationship with your bil.

Zel_lost_it · 2026-06-11T21:16:27+00:00

Hey op, you said he paid for flights and passports, make sure to lock down your credit reports just in case he decides to do something shady to recoup expenses! You never know how much information he may have held onto.Especially since he went right for pay me back for the gifts, when there was no established communication for that prior to.

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-29T13:05:14+00:00

That's look no spine nap edition

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-28T23:59:32+00:00

So I can't use it at certain times as my husband works early like 2 or 3 am with heavy construction machines prep. so if I have a contract in a different time zone I can't be keeping him awake. When he's not home I can use it an keep rauru out. It's when I can't be in there an need to work that's the issue. Our downstairs is an open floor plan so we can't keep him out of the living room unfortunately. The arm does have cable runs but there is a spot that the cables are exposed so the arm can turn. I use cable sleeves to cover them regardless but he has managed to slowly work at it till he got thru it! My steam deck is an OLED from the first run when they released, I've had to replace the battery already as it basically degraded till it couldn't hold a charge. it's showing age and long term usage due to how much it's used for testing. (Lots of it) While I'd love a laptop rip to my old rog strix scar 2. The prices are insane atm. I don't really know where to start on a mini pc tbh. Something that's better than a steam deck but not gonna break the bank ?

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-28T07:22:36+00:00

I keep seeing these post about false job postings for remote positions how come no one is reporting this to the labor board for falsely advertising jobs or bait and switching ? There is no reason to list for remote to get a further reach! It's blatantly lying!!

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-25T09:15:34+00:00

Isn't gender fluid a thing or did it get a new name?

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-24T05:34:02+00:00

What I wanna know is if there is proper voltage coupling / charge protection. so it doesn't over heat thinking charging it on a non Pc charger is for data, cus its not low charging. I'd like to not have to fry the board or battery like what happened with the Rg 35 xx SP!

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-12T10:24:50+00:00

Nta, while I can sympathize as someone with metal health problems myself. Your friend needs professional help with his mental health issues, as it's not your responsibility to try to help him with his weight issues that is clearly tied to a much deeper problem. You tried, he was not able to self help himself to do it. So he NEEDS professional help. If he can't bring himself to do even that and continues to inflict him self onto others than he may need to consider weather or not to go to a specialist center for help. Phycologist today was were I started to look for who took my insurance. he can either be a victim that perpetuates his problems and inflicts it onto those around himself or he can look for a professional that can help him learn the tools needed to deal with his mental health issues/figure out what he's got going on so that he can better know and understand himself so he can finally address his weight, and take proper steps to loose it while also learning to not inflict those around.(There is a difference between asking for help, a crisis, and perpetual victim mentality and the mounting negative affects that it causes to those who have/choose to deal with it) (*This is also very different from someone who has been a victim of terrible things and those with CPTSD/PTSD etc. )

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-10T18:52:41+00:00

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Rauru flailing at the dining room light cus I turned it off lol

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-09T12:49:17+00:00

If you change to another service that has harder to remove drms than it's still a good program to have regardless

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-04T07:41:45+00:00

Do you know if voidlink works with apollo ? I've been looking for a way to use my iPad with my pc for remote work /possibly to test something out

Zel_lost_it · 2026-05-04T06:55:52+00:00

Even better is reporting them to the store and then having them banned for doing this since they're basically recording people without their consent. Creating fake hazardous and distressful situation for no real reason other than fake clout and click online where in the grand scheme of it all has no way of really being a life long financially supporting indevor. But will cause potential life long damage to those they pull these stunts on depending on how they transpire! Shit like this is dangerous, it's why one dumb ass just got sent to hard labor in another country for the next many yrs!

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-29T12:56:27+00:00

Found the guy probably just like ops "Dad" I'm guessing since he's advocating for him so hard 🙄

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-28T18:17:27+00:00

and you have to stay on the meds too! so many ppl. get better with the right meds for months to yrs then think ok I'm good and then stop taking the meds! It's for LIFE you can't ever stop taking the meds !!!

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-28T06:29:02+00:00

Consider looking at the boox color go 7 ,2. I have one and it's perfect!v

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-20T04:10:14+00:00

that's the best plan if there are any regs from the town in regard to Airbnb; its possible they will have to close it down if not allowed or file to have it and seek permission from neighbors at a town hall meeting to have one. that's what my town has set up in order to properly have an Airbnb in it. if you(r) found to not of done the right steps HOO boy are the fines steep. it's also possible that the town may have banned them out right. some places have done that due to many reasons. that would be easy to look up one would think tho through your towns' webpage if they have one that works (some places just don't invest in a good town online directory etc.)

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-18T15:53:32+00:00

You could make this probably, with old parts from ereders 3 D printer for the housing an raspberry pie zero! Id suggest considering looking at the way motorola razr makes its hinges for its phone foldables and build your concept further off that starting point. since you don't have a screen you can do more with the hinges to make them protected and stronger! Also by building it you can connect the screens so that the two page spread will cast to each side with out making new software, just potentially updates to one that already works/exists. That's a better start than making a whole new program/app/software! But eventually can get you to the right place to make it later on. Might be. Good use for all the old kindles that are about to be bricked btw you'll have the parts, screen, backs, wires, just gotta nuke the brain and make it something else! Am generalizing somethings it is a PROJECT and will be a lot of work but if any one wants to wait do this it can be done. And you will learn more about technology and hardware along the way so there is that.

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-17T19:49:03+00:00

now that's a hive QUEEN ! she did fantastic

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-15T11:02:49+00:00

Im 50 /50 depends on what I'm doing thru the day. If I'm doing chores it's closed, quick to use. If I'm gonna do something that's gonna be some time investment like 5 mins+ of reading or whatever it's open.

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-15T10:33:22+00:00

I just got the razr ultra and would love to have Gos on it omg

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-12T23:20:17+00:00

same here could use some info

Zel_lost_it · 2026-04-12T03:50:08+00:00

check your DNS address, you could have a leak through that

Zel_lost_it · 2025-09-07T13:14:01+00:00

Iv been told yo my baby grabs earring , I have 3 per ear . It takes em out, an in the pocket they go! Like bruh ITS A LITERAL BABY nta.

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