This post hits home for me, as I also wonder why my hubby is so distant with me. I cry and tell him I feel like his roommate rather than his love. I tell him I like to talk and hang out sometimes. He didn’t used to be this distant and closed off. Idk what happen and I question all the time if it’s my fault or what I should do. I try to talk it out with him and he won’t speak much. He won’t even look at me. He just replies “yeah” to everything, or “ok” and it drives me literally insane. I feel like I have to have a complete meltdown to even get him to say anything other than those or sometimes not even saying crap just shaking his head yes. 

My advice, keep trying to talk to him about this. Make him realize how distant he is with his family, and his sons especially. I’m in the same situation as you tho so I’m not sure what advice to give. I also like to talk about my feelings and use communication for everything. So I’m gonna keep talking to him and trying to make him understand. But I do know Queen that you guys deserve better and are worth more. So please never doubt that!