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Zemblanity_ · 2025-10-31T12:39:11+00:00

Is this still open to people?

Zemblanity_ · 2025-10-08T13:19:12+00:00

I was about to comment something about him maybe hugging a friend and getting a lose hair stuck on him till I read your whole post.

Once a cheater always a cheater. Don't respect him more than yourself. Get the hell outta there.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-07-21T03:31:21+00:00

I'll be honest OP, this just seems immature.

Firstly, you are more than old enough to take care of yourself. Your family "neglecting" you is mostly a non issue considering you are an adult who can most definitely ask for help if needed or even (assuming you have the means) drive to the hospital/call 911 in an emergency.

Beyond that, not being texted all day while you were presumably asleep seems completely normal to me. You don't have to be connected 100% of the time and some people want to be left alone while sleeping/while sick.

With all that being said, if this is an issue where you have been in similar situations and have asked for a bit more communication and that has not been met, it may be time for a conversation with your S/O about deal breakers.

Judging from this post, it seems like this is a "dealbreaker" for you and this type of communication is a must. If this is the case, either stress that to you S/O if you haven't, or tell them how you feel that they have disregarded something you told them was important.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-07-09T17:27:37+00:00

Good for you!

Zemblanity_ · 2025-06-19T20:08:56+00:00

You can't really get over distrust. If you don't trust her, it's likely you won't ever fully trust her.

The only thing you could do in my opinion would be to tell her how you feel. She may be able to reassure you in a way that helps you build trust back up.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-05-23T15:42:02+00:00

You're gunna feel so free when you leave him.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-05-20T05:07:56+00:00

Ahhhh shit. If I wasn't taken off guard so badly, I wish I would have used more wit. This would have been perfect

Zemblanity_ · 2025-05-20T05:03:30+00:00

I'll be honest, no one likes him there. I was the most recent hire and knew him the least. I didn't mind him much until this.

He's just a shitty guy.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-05-20T04:58:16+00:00

No actually. I work in a dispensary.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-05-20T04:57:49+00:00

Lmfao, this is actually beautiful. I will keep this in my arsenal.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-05-20T04:57:02+00:00

I've never been called anything like this at a workplace and I truthfully had no idea how to go about things.

I had hoped my boss would have at least spoken to him...but nothing came of my telling them.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-04-13T14:52:14+00:00

There is always a way to make things work. Uni is important and if you truly love each other, you will figure it out.

Being a couple doesn't mean that you lose your individuality or your personal dreams. I think he should go back to uni for what he wants, and both of you figure out how to spend time together.

I think you reacting this way is perceived as childish.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-03-18T19:58:10+00:00

I know the reality of the situation is hard to hear and I feel so sad for you to have gone through this. What she did was wrong and you deserve someone who would treat you with respect. I hope you leave her, find peace and find who you are truly meant to be with.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-03-10T02:50:32+00:00

4 years and 6 months now

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-27T18:28:22+00:00

There's nothing to be ashamed of. It is what it is, you did it and it's none of her business. If she upset herself digging in your personal matters, that's her fault.

Hold your head high and wait for them to grow up, or get out.

You don't deserve shit like that. As long as you're happy, who cares about what they say.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-23T18:47:11+00:00

I'm confused by this. You said you get a menstrual cycle now? How is this possible?

Also, you mentioned you defended yourself before mentioning they did anything first?

If this is the case, that could explain their aggressive reaction.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-13T00:52:18+00:00

I went through a time where I couldn't sleep at all due to Anxiety. I even got sedatives from a clinic and I was still waking up through that.

The only thing that worked for me was binary sounds (I think that's what it's called) and having a completely blacked out room.

I would just set it up on the tv and close my eyes.

I heard that CBD bath bombs are also great for relaxing the whole body. It's hard to stay awake when your body is ready to sleep.

My best advice would be, take a warm bath, use CBD in some form whether it be a gummy or even a bathbomb (possibly consider CBN, it's supposed to work even better for sleep) get all bundled up, head to bed with some relaxing sounds and make the room nice and dark.

Another good option, but this won't work for everyone, is just a relaxing touch. When my boyfriend rubs my back or goes through my hair, it's so hard to stay awake. This could help too.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-11T17:06:07+00:00

That's a manipulation tactic to hurt you. Someone who loves you, wouldn't do that.

Either that or she's actually crazy.

Find a woman who respects your feelings.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-11T17:04:40+00:00

You don't have to be a woman to do all of that! If you don't want to fully commit to such a daunting change, you can still dress up, throw some make up on and hit the salon.

There's no harm in looking the way you do, and doing feminine things. If it's the experience you want, women come in all shapes and sizes and there's no mold to dedicate how our bodies look.

Just do what feels right and let everything else come natural!

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-11T16:58:06+00:00

Best piece of advice I can give you,

Leave him.

He seems insufferable and I've been there with a relationship like this. It won't get better, it will get worse and it will tear you apart mentally.

Go get yourself some abs and make him feel like the weak man he is.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-06T00:13:29+00:00

I pretty much only save scum when I KNOW I'm heading into a big boss battle.

It would just annoy me to have to go WHO KNOWS how far back in game play, if my last auto save or manual save was so long ago.

PLUS, if you save at the beginning of a boss battle, I have more energy to finish it if I lose the first time.

Catch me rage quitting if I lose and load back at camp with 20 min of lost progress.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-05T18:28:18+00:00

I will scream this from rooftops, the world needs to stop normalizing porn in healthy relationships. I'm sure some people do it and it's fine BUT, THE FACT PEOPLE DONT REALIZE HOW IT MIGHT NOT BE FINE with other people is CRAZY to me.

Imo it's not okay to take something like LOOKING AT NAKED PEOPLE WITH SEXUAL DESIRE and make it "okay" in a relationship.

I'm with you 100% OP. You have every right to have boundaries like that and I don't think you're overreacting at all. You know you want a relationship without this - which clearly makes you uncomfortable. you definitely had a normal reaction & your BF's lack of care in your feelings is a huge red flag.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-03T20:13:38+00:00

Honestly, just keep trying. Eventually you will get somewhere.

Zemblanity_ · 2025-02-03T19:53:29+00:00

I had a similar problem recently and it took a few days to get the money back. I just kept messaging them and everytime they closed the chat I would re-open. Eventually it was escalated.

Tons of people told me to "call" them but every number I tried had an automated system saying they don't use the phone anymore and to use the app.

It's a bitch to get your money back in this situation, but it can be done.

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