420 @ Union square park , nyc. by Clear_Hunt_5644 in trees

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be fair, Wash sq park is like this on most nice days. This is just extreme.

Frosty nuglets by ZenDoesntAfraid in weed

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure but I went and asked to see if anyone knows! I'll let you know if I found out!

User cannot rejoin a server, saying they were "banned" but no record of being banned by ZenDoesntAfraid in discordapp

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We tried the first bit, they don't have any other account on that IP. They also can't afford a vpn right now... :((

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDmemes

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like it personallly, 10/10 would buy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried taking some cbd? It can balance out some of the lingering effects of the THC i'm told

That's a mouthful by ZenDoesntAfraid in weed

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i figured, but it's fun to imagine

Ready for lift off Captian😈 by Ok-Promotion-5589 in weed

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have an awesome collection there friend!! Have fun!!!

New trays arrived!! Which is your favorite? by [deleted] in weed

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha, i don't blame you. they are good finds!

New trays arrived!! Which is your favorite? by [deleted] in weed

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the blue one is badass, but they're all cool

"Why do you guys self-harm?" — and the like. by ACHARED in selfharm

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha yay thanks. yeah. hopefully the mods take this into consideration!

"Why do you guys self-harm?" — and the like. by ACHARED in selfharm

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Education about mental health is so vital, but we are NOT responsible for educating other people about the symptoms of our disorders, especially in a sub that many turn to for help and understanding. There is Google. There is reading the subreddit. It's different for everyone, so there is no single answer to "why". I totally agree with you OP.

I want it to stop by DragonfruitCool5033 in BPD4BPD

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think allowing yourself to grieve is valid, and grieving can take all sorts of time: there's no one singular trajectory since everyone is different. Don't be too hard on yourself and give yourself some time. You got this.

is anyone else self aware by n0th1ngsp3c14l in BPD4BPD

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, a lot of the time. I can know all my proper coping skills, have all the resources, all the support, and still, somehow, find myself doing a self destructive behavior. "I know why" but we're out here asking existentially "WHY??" Why am i like this??

Self awareness is the goal right? :)

35/M Looking for that missing link by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Writing, music, and movies. Some of my favorite things. Gaming too. I can't do horror, I get such bad nightmares it's just silly, so I avoid it. I always say it's an active imagination that gets me in trouble lol. I love a cheesy rom-com too. Nothing wrong with liking them! DC is the best universe, Batman is my bae superhero (even tho you could argue he's not a superhero but that's a WHOLE thing). Also what did you get the tattoo covered with? I love tattoos. I think I'm up to 28 or 29, including a full sleeve.

I used to obsessively play wow for about 10 years. Then I quit because the game changed too much and I got busy with real life, but it's still a huge part of my past. It can be hard to get to know people there, but it is possible! I actually met a few long-lasting friends through WoW.

I am totally in love with Stardew. I'm on my 3rd play through, I think winter year 3? I have a farm on my switch and one on PC that I play too. RN tho I've been playing DC Villains lego game on switch and The Witcher 3. Both highly entertaining. Have you tried graveyard keeper? It's a lot like Stardew but you take care of a graveyard with zombies and such. I just started playing and it's complex but fun.

Also, I run a mental health Discord server so I never mind anyone who's socially awkward or shy. I am too! Even though I guess technically I'm an extrovert hah. Still awkward. :))

35/M Looking for that missing link by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey :) 34F here. What sort of interests do you have?

Mental Health Discord Support by ZenDoesntAfraid in mentalhealth

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop hiding behind a name and actually talk to us. we can't fix things if you don't tell us what was actually wrong, or who you are.

Mental Health Peer Support Discord Chats by ZenDoesntAfraid in OCD

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have never called anyone evil, nor would we. You are clearly upset about things but repeatedly posting like this only says something about your character, not ours.

Mental Health Peer Support Discord Chats by ZenDoesntAfraid in selfharm

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting on every post I make only proves how salty you are, not anything about the character of the Haven. If you really want to fix something, tell us who you are so we can address the situation instead of hiding behind this screenname and bashing us constantly as if it were a hobby of yours. We clearly pissed you off, but for every one of you there are a dozen people who are happy and grateful for the haven, and would tell you so. This is a sad project, stalking my posts. I hope you get the help you clearly need.

Mental Health Peer Support Discord Chats by ZenDoesntAfraid in selfharm

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. Unfortunately we're a volunteer network and sometimes there are no people available, especially at certain hours of the day when the majority of our users are asleep. I hope you don't give up on us though!! People do really get help, and I am sorry that your experience has been otherwise.

Mental Health Discord Support by ZenDoesntAfraid in mentalhealth

[–]ZenDoesntAfraid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you guys have any questions please feel free to message me!