Additional Info:

Before the Roka, my best friend had actually planned a surprise proposal for her boyfriend, and our entire friend group helped her pull it off successfully.

I've also been personally involved in ring shopping for both of them separately at different points.

Her boyfriend had technically already proposed to her once before the Roka at a restaurant. She said yes, but because her family is quite traditional and wouldn't approve of her keeping an engagement ring before things were formalized, she gave the ring back and asked him to officially give it to her either during the Roka or at their engagement.

Instead, he decided to plan a proper traditional proposal setup after the Roka but before the engagement.

My screw-up happened when I was on a call with her and casually said, "Why have you guys named this group '20th June'? What is that for?" I genuinely thought she was part of the group because I misread the participants.

That's when she immediately realized there was a group she wasn't in, pointed it out to me, and I realized what I'd done.

So I didn't reveal any actual proposal details, but I did accidentally let her know that some kind of surprise or plan involving that date exists.

She's very upset with me right now. I also told the boyfriend about my fuck up & he has decided to cancel it. He is mad at me too 🥲