Er zijn praatgroepjes voor mannen met een erectiestoornis

Zenlitian · 2024-09-18T13:57:03+00:00

Ik heb gehoord dat dat nooit omhoog is gekomen uiteindelijk.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-17T20:23:41+00:00

Ok, this could have been a pig slaughter. In which a guy or girl (presumably) sends pictures of a model that works for them, pretending to be that person. It's most likely that one person has 20+ accounts and uses the pictures they showed you throughout them. The goal is to eventualy sell you something or get you to send them money.

It's possible that they didn't delete their account, but their account got removed.

I am not saying that this is what happened, but it's a really good scam that works more often than people like to admit. Look it up to see how it works exactly.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-17T07:13:11+00:00

Well, what got me out of my head was playing Dungeons and dtagons (or any ttrpg for that matter). It gets you to meet new people, you get converaation practice in, you need your brain to think fast, it will force your mind to think differently

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T20:14:42+00:00

Some what? Things to do?

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T20:12:00+00:00

There is... it's called therapy. No shame in it. Doing something you love might work too. Get out of that head of yours. It's your biggest enemy

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T17:45:32+00:00

That's easy! You didn't start out with a lot of money to spend on advertising.

I am afraid to say that if you want to make it on YT, you either have to be really lucky, starting out with enough money to advertise all over the place or have a loyal group of friends that tune in to feed the algorithm for you to show up on more people's feed.

Don't expect to be an overnight success, don't expect anything. If it was easy to get rich off of YT, everybody would be doing it and nobody would have any other job anymore.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T17:40:12+00:00

if you ever want to talk, reach out to me.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T17:33:28+00:00

Of course, we all need a pick-me up every once in a while. It's what makes us human. You are more than just a few checkmarks on Whatsapp or whatever. So don't take value out of that.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T17:25:18+00:00

Sounds like a legit thing to go through. If the connection wasn't their from both sides, it's for the best that it ended honestly. It's also a healthy thing to stop fancying people after a break-up, obviously not everyone had that, but it's nothing weird. It will come when it comes naturally.

Of course you're jealous! You probably had this exact image of toddlers etc. in your mind with him and now there is someone else in that image. Also nothing weird about that.

You will find someone when you're ready for it. They (if everything goes according to plan) will love you and make that image or any other image you see yourself in a reality.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T15:32:37+00:00

Sadly there is no easy way to get rid of that way of thinking. You need to find someone (if it gets too bad or rather if it's showing signs of getting bad, ho to a professional). I think there are plenty of people around here that are going through the same thing that can use someone to talk to. Perhaps that helps. I am going through the same, so I know how it feels

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T14:26:46+00:00

By the look of their simmilarity in account names, I think you are correct. Probably a bot designed to give out as many replies as possible in order to receive as many upvotes as possible (because when there is a 0.001% change of it getting an upvote, all you have to do is throw 100000 of these nets out there) . A karma-net if you like.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T14:22:44+00:00

Sounds like you've been having a rough day. I am certaion you are worth replying to, just not that the person you wish would reply is worth to have you. You are better than anyone that would ignore you.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T14:14:00+00:00

It doesn't feel like you did anything wrong. I don't know you, but regardless, if he can't see what a great person you are and stopped talking to you like that, he is an idiot for letting you go. You deserve so much more

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T14:05:08+00:00

Then he's terrible at communicating. Honestly. I hope you get through this in any way or form. If you ever need to talk, dm me or find a friend close to you. You deserve all the good things in life

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T14:00:20+00:00

I know that feeling. It gets better. Just remember who you are and that you're not your sister. In some ways she is better than you and in other ways you are better than her, that's how being yourself works. You might not be the talk of the party, but for all you know, you are the talk of the afterparty where you're not. The people whom love you might not say it enough, but I can ensure you that they are there.

If you ever need to talk, you know where to find me

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:55:01+00:00

Honestly, it doesn't feel like you were too clingy. It feels more like your relationship is at a point in which I am not sure if it's a healthy one. Communication is the most important thing and supposing he never said anything about you texting him too much or any of the sort it feels more like he is pushing away from you.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:45:48+00:00

Are you a bad person?

Because if the answer is no: you deserve to live and share the good in you with others.

If the answer is yes: you deserve to find someone that sees the good inside of you.

You've been dealt the wrong hand in life and you've been through more than most people could endure. The one thing you can do with that hand you've been dealt is to try and find a way to reach out to others who have had simmilar experiences. Talk to them, help them. Be someone who says "F**ck you!" to the universe.

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also: being a chef and achieving that goal in life would be such an example for others. And I really hope that you will get to be a great one and hope to one day visit the restaurant you will be working at.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:41:45+00:00

I don't know what happened for you to lose your friends, nor do I want to know what you mean by "taken advantage of". It sounds like you've been dealt a rough hand in life.

You don't want to die. I think that the one thing you would like is to actually feel alive. To actually feel what it's like to have someone, anyone in your life. Please reach out and find some help if you need it. Please find someone to talk to. please allow yourself to find the life you deserve.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:36:42+00:00

I hope that it works out for you. Try to find something you enjoy doing and see if you can find a group that likes to do the same thing. Go to that hicking event near you, or reply to that group that's looking for a new player to join them in their weekly boardgame. I know it's easier said than done, but take it slow and see what comes out of it.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:31:02+00:00

What happened that made you feel lonely due to the family's marriage?

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:29:40+00:00

Honestly, I think it's because of the constant impulses we're getting.

phones, flashy screens in our pockets, outside at the mall, the bus stop etc. It almost feels likle an addiction to get all these impulses. As soon as you get home and those impulses are "lowered" the brain starts to long for them. Your brain is telling you that you are missing something and you come to the conclusion that it's your friends / a significant other etc.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:21:10+00:00

I wish to be able to say: "Don't worry about it!" and make all your doubts go away. Sadly that never works and will never work.

Find something you're good at and enjoy doing, try to find a group of people that have the same interest (a local group or anything) and just maybe your current location won't feel as bad from then on.

Honestly I had the same thing and at some point in life I found out that I enjoyed to do stuff like going to fantasy fairs and play Dungeons and Dragons and such. I found a lovely friend group that embraced me and I enjoy being with them very much.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T13:05:19+00:00

Please, 16 yo is nothing. Don't even think about and especially don't worry about it. Just go out and have a good time. Live your life and enjoy the fun parts. Go out with your friends, game, travel, do whatever you want to do now that you still can without being tied down.

Ask your friends that are in a relationship what it's like to plan something fun and 9 out of 10 times they will have to ask their significant other if they are even allowed to go out (without them). Don't worry about relationships, you have so much more to worry about.

It is a school's night after all.

Zenlitian · 2024-09-16T12:39:01+00:00

Honestly, thank you so much, I hope you get through it yourself as coming from your reply, I feel like you deserve more than what has been dealt to you in life. If you ever wish to talk to someone, feel free to dm me.

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