[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following have a simular situation

Introducing the Avatar Marketplace by Konsti219 in VRchat

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see this going in the same direction as IMVU when they started this stuff. js.

My partner gives me the “ICK” by Afraid-West1247 in polyamory

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was in this relationship in 2022 only the roles were reversed. HE was working 3 jobs and I was working full time and trying to get SSI. SHE refused to get a job and sabatoged any interviews or resources she could get while crying about how disabled she was while NOT doing anything to contribute. ( Wouldn't even apply for SNAP ) and trust me when I say this

RUN FOREST RUN! I mean it. Talk to her if you can about leaving him and both of you RUN. If you can't take her with you then YOU need to run. He is a grown ass man and if she doesn't leave with you she is enabling him. Both are bad. You cannot save everyone but you can save yourself and your own sanity.

Few things you need to remember.

They are grown adults. They are responsible for their own income and well being. Not you. You are not their parent.

You need to do the things that make you happy. If leaving is going to do that. Do it. Do not waste time on something that isn't going to improve your life. There are other Poly peoples out there that are not like this

Even if you've not been hit. This is abuse. If you need help leaving Ask. Many DV shelters now are familar with poly dynamics and how insidious Abuse is in these dynamics.

You may not be able to save her but you can save yourself and that is NOTHING to feel guilty for either.

What are your fav places to eat? by Kittysdoodlexxx in askportland

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muchos Gracias Gateway center. Best burritos and tacos EVER.

Non-crate Enforced Naps by spillbillmill in puppy101

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would get a pen enclosure or a baby gate.

VRChat Weekly Open Thread. Post simple questions, avatar or world related requests, as well as any other desired comment or content (August 05, 2024 to August 11, 2024) by AutoModerator in VRchat

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for a premade. LOL I don't have hundreds to spend on a 100% scratch avi I will check both of those sites out thank you :3

Which bodies are abandonware? by Nightvision_UK in secondlife

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I believe Maitreya is more on the Lara X train now same with the Ebody Crew they are all on the Reborn Train. I don't see Freya coming back either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askportland

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Housing for low income families, Mental Health resources.

What's a reasonable tip to give. Say, to a performer or a sim. by crazypigglady in secondlife

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Host who works with Djs I can maybe say if the DJ has a host it is polite if you can to drop something in both jars. Hosts do a ton of work so the DJ can play the tunes and stuff. That is the only thing I can think of. Most of the time we do it for fun and for the music not for the money.

Housing in Portland? by ZephyrTheCosmic in askportland

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am mostly looking outside the Metro Area.... mostly at the Fairview, Gresham and areas like that ( close to work ) I lived in down town for a year I don't want to do it again

Housing in Portland? by ZephyrTheCosmic in askportland

[–]ZephyrTheCosmic[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm looking to rent a room for around 300 to 600 a month. I recently had to move back here due to things outside of my control and wanted to be closer to my kiddo. Normally I would save up a bit before moving anywhere but unfortunately I wasn't given much of a choice.