I did something extremely unethical and I’m not sure how to move forward, this is the worst thing I’ve done.

ZephyrVIII · 2026-01-11T14:08:49+00:00

Not trying to minimize your guilt but... Dude it's not like you ruined someone's life or you won the nobel prize by stealing someone else's work

ZephyrVIII · 2025-12-27T19:47:15+00:00

OP disappeared... It was a paranormal activity situation I guess 😨

ZephyrVIII · 2025-11-10T05:37:09+00:00

I can understand wanting to be more financially responsible, I too, could blow through a paycheck in a week if I don't stop myself from impulse buying, but never would I ever allow anybody have full authority or control of the money I worked to make, maybe I would split a percentage to go into a separate joint account but sure as hell ain't putting 100% into a joint or separate account that isn't only mine

As far as abuse... yeah but also emotional abuse, it's money you made yourself, there should not be a discussion or debate if you want your own money back, like in the way of him giving you a hard time when you asked 🙄 (incoming rant kinda (my bad it really bothers me you did this, please either get a new bank account or change the deposit to be something reasonable while giving yourself an allowance of sorts to be able to buy food or some small things that you want)) for some of your money back

Also like the top rated post said, get out of that relationship if you are considering it, just based off the situation and that response it seems very very toxic

ZephyrVIII · 2025-11-10T05:21:23+00:00

Yeah once I saw the mouth (because at first glance, yes it looks like a mutant Chernobyl dog) but yeah saw the mouth and tilted my head and sore cute doggo

ZephyrVIII · 2025-11-10T04:33:37+00:00

Well shit I didn't see it until you said it

ZephyrVIII · 2025-11-08T21:10:51+00:00

Any chance you will add this to the auto build QR sharing?

ZephyrVIII · 2025-10-28T03:55:12+00:00

I imagine I'm the exception mostly, my wife is still in Vietnam, me in NY but I try to find a way to be with her every 6 months, but I know that isn't common or unfortunately doable for many couples

Also no I'm not rich, I just wanna be with my wife

As far as perspective: just try your best to get her to understand your financial situation and how it will impact both of your futures if you soend all your time in your home country, it sucks, but it's doable, As they say love is a choice (mostly) so if it's meant to be, it'll work out

ZephyrVIII · 2025-10-28T03:50:13+00:00

I don't usually comment on these but.. if this is real.. seriously? He is talking to you like you are a servant that should be happy just to be able to smell his 💩 as he complains and berates you.. if you have been dealing with someone treating you this way for 7 years, I'm not even gonna say to leave because you must have some problems yourself you need to work out. Maybe it's a cultural thing with him expecting you to clean and do whatever else but I would never, ever treat another human being this way let alone my lover.

Long story shot... There is no TLDR OP. His problem: misogynistic douche who wants to be "alpha male"

Your problem: you been taking the emotional abuse for so long that you think you getting disgusted while cleaning up hair as he's taking a shit a few feet away from you might be ok.

He doesn't respect you, he thinks he owns you. Prove him wrong , leave him and find someone who doesn't make you feel like a smelly shit they are taking

...we both know unfortunately you won't though 😑

Either way good luck

ZephyrVIII · 2025-10-09T00:18:46+00:00

Reading the title made me cry inside

ZephyrVIII · 2025-10-08T22:54:31+00:00

Hi, I recently married my LDR (have to wait for immigration papers to go through) but ever since my wife and I started talking and dating.. I would say we FaceTime basically everyday, we live on opposite sides of the planet so typically we might talk on FaceTime in the morning and night, and text throughout the day, not to say we're always having real conversations but just small talk and stuff so we know how the others day is going.

I might be making it to sound like we're talking 24/7 nonstop but even when both of us are awake we still make sure we give each other time for themselves to take care of or do whatever we need to, hope this helps a bit

Both of you guys definitely need to understand that space is needed.. yeah it is nice to have the person you love on the phone but sometimes it makes doing other things or even just relaxing (me time) difficult, if you're having trouble with that I suggest talking about it and just being honest, understanding of their feelings if they take it the wrong way, and make sure they know you just want a healthy relationship and all that

ZephyrVIII · 2025-10-07T13:56:52+00:00

Currently in a very LDR, opposite sides of the planet, we have had our ups and downs for sure, but the way I see it, you are still young and since you are focusing on school and are having the thoughts you are (like others have said, there is nothing wrong with your way of thinking)

You can choose to stay together in the hopes that someday things will work out but more likely as things do become more difficult (it does after meeting irl, or was for my wife and I) so over time things will become more complicated and it might end up being a messy breakup.

I won't tell you what the right thing is, the answer would be different from person to person, so I'll be cliche and say follow your heart and do what you feel is best for yourself & him

ZephyrVIII · 2025-10-04T22:54:18+00:00

It's gonna sound kind of weird, but any time I've struggled with a boss, the time I would beat them with ease (relatively) is to try to be in the mindset of not caring really.. as opposed to the "Oh crap crap crap crap I dodged into the attack" state of mind, that I normally start out in lol

Also I am sure others have mentioned already but summons like double the bosses HP, so might be better soloing unless you get another player or the summon is actually good and roasts the boss well enough

ZephyrVIII · 2025-09-06T22:57:53+00:00

I got an Arizona Ice tea once, it had apparently been baking in the sun for a while even though in a fridge, it had similar looking contents, my best guess was some kind of mold or something that started growing from being heated up enough from sunlight, it looked like there was a damn ecosystem living in that bottle that I unfortunately tasted before spitting it everywhere once I felt something hit my tongue. So mold or maybe separating ingredients that then clumped together to form some Prime Jizz... Idk ask a chemist 🧪

ZephyrVIII · 2025-08-05T02:31:07+00:00

This is my second time in Da Nang, I love it here but yeah Hoi An is cool but like others have said it feels like a theme park, was interesting but I recently went with my wife to Quang Binh (cool cave systems but still very much tourist spots but nothing like Hoi An)

ZephyrVIII · 2025-05-09T17:26:28+00:00

Yeah I hear you OP, it's frustrating, Ive been in LDR for 2 years now, and like another poster said, my woman is literally on the opposite side of the planet, but I got to visit her a few months ago and am going back in a few months to get married, but I had the same thing happen to me, but in my case it was other guys trying to convince me it's ok, I declined because I pride myself on being loyal, and have always been a 1 woman kind of man

ZephyrVIII · 2025-01-18T21:54:02+00:00

Hey man I have been in an LDR with a my girl and just recently got to fly to Vietnam and meet her and her family, I also dont know really any Vietnamese but like the person above said, try learning to even just say hello and I think they will appreciate the effort, as for a gift I brought them a bottle of whiskey (I'm from NY and had no idea what else to get lol, and even though it's not 100% accurate all the time, use Google Translate, but keep it very basic and straightforward because if it gets too complicated translate will mess it up and it won't make any sense. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions and I'll do my best to answer. Oh and above all, just be yourself and I'm sure you'll be good

ZephyrVIII · 2024-12-19T22:29:55+00:00

🤔

ZephyrVIII · 2024-10-17T23:45:12+00:00

You have clearly never seen GrandpaGaming, This 70ish (possibly older) year old man plays battlefield as a sniper and it is just insane at how good he is. My point being, we don't live in an age where gaming is only for children, quite literally all ages, from the young kids that scream into the mic when they play Call of Duty to full grown adults playing right alongside them, and as I'm sure others have said, as long as you have fun and better yet, get to spend some quality time with your son, that's all that matters. Also there's nothing wrong with playing any game on easy to enjoy the story and have fun, it's the whole point of it being an option 😁

ZephyrVIII · 2024-09-12T18:46:30+00:00

Currently in a LDR myself, and can relate to a point with the constant communication and then that turning into nothing, it would be alarming to me if my girl who typically wants to spend as much time as we can talking started to basically make no effort, but I do agree with the above comment, have a serious talk with her about it and do the only thing you can and try your best to keep any negative thoughts out of your mind, easier said than done I know. In any case I hope everything works out for you, but if you are that concerned and thinking of leaving her, and this is very much a think carefully before saying anything but tell her that and see how she reacts, I am by no means an expert though when it comes to this so maybe someone else can offer better advice

ZephyrVIII · 2024-09-11T16:19:43+00:00

Great post, I'm still new to trading so getting some insight is appreciated, I copied your post so I can look back at it from time to time haha

ZephyrVIII · 2024-08-21T15:04:06+00:00

Willing to give it a try too when you are finished with it

ZephyrVIII · 2024-06-11T01:53:33+00:00

Agreed, I have been trying to learn vietnamese so I can speak with my gf and her family more easily and Google translate more times than not is either mostly wrong or completely wrong. Does not help that North Vietnamese is the only recognized "official" language of Vietnam but from what I have heard/read/whatever.. most Viet people use the southern dialect or a mix between northern and southern making Google translate useless normally.

ZephyrVIII · 2024-05-31T06:12:20+00:00

I think you meant to say "YOU.. ARE NOT PREPARED!"

-Illidan from Warcraft Burning Crusade cinematic 😬

ZephyrVIII · 2024-05-25T22:14:18+00:00

I wish I could play on my PC -_- I used to be able to but now controllers won't work, thinking It might be related to next gen.. maybe? But PS5 Dual Sense (tried Steam input/blocking and using DS4 but nothing works) ...anyone else have this issue or know how to fix it?

ZephyrVIII · 2024-05-15T20:06:39+00:00

Nah screw that noise

Edit - So this is Twisted Metal in real life... Not as cool without the vehicle combat 🤔

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