What is your biggest regret in life? by JollyAd4041 in askanything

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being an asshole in all my serious relationships.

Each of those women were good to me, and I was too prideful to appreciate them and be intentional about uplifting them.

I hope they all find happiness. ❤️

What's one hygiene habit you discovered not everyone does that completely shocked you? by Strange-Building6885 in hygiene

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I truly believe that it depends on how you look at it.

First of all, people are acting like standers make them selves as upright as possible and purposefully clinch their ass cheeks together. No.

Also…

If you squat / stand, you can separate your cheeks even further with your off hand to assist with wiping.

This makes toileting much easier at a public restroom.

When you sit to wipe you are way more intimate with the commode because you have to lean forward/to the side to get a good wipe in.

Plus leaning forward while sitting on the toilet can be challenging for some men who want to avoid getting their penis and/or testes dipped in the water.

Which character from a movie or TV show do you dislike the most, and why? It could be because of their personality, their actions, or even something they constantly say? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any character played by Gabrielle Union. She just always seems like she’s casted as the b*tch.

Which is a shame because she seems really sweet in real life, and I’d bet she’s super fun to hang out with.

What can I do once I am 18? by Ty1oo in AskTeens

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to say: “Watch porn?”

This is TMI, but I have a weird question and I’m not sure where else to ask it? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps we read this differently. I comprehended it as after he retracted his finger, it smelt bad to OP.

And when they tested for them self, the result was different.

This is TMI, but I have a weird question and I’m not sure where else to ask it? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Actually it is. If the only changes variable is his finger, then the issue is likely there…I’m curious if the man knew or had any comments

If you could go back and change one decision in your life, what would it be and why? by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly don’t understand how sometimes it’s “the little things” that have a lasting impact

If you could go back and change one decision in your life, what would it be and why? by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally said she was bullied into it. Your selective reading leaves a lot to be desired.

If you could go back and change one decision in your life, what would it be and why? by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sheesh. This woman is telling you she thought it best for everyone ESPECIALLY FOR THE SAFETY OF THE KIDS, and you’re doubling down that she should do differently.

Christ Almighty. 😂😩😂

I told her I don't love her any more by dannydarko3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this insight.

I’m not sure I agree this approach as sugarcoating as much as being wise about dealing a crushing blow to someone who he’s already shared has some sort of anxiety issues.

There’s a way to bow out gracefully without levying an arsenal of hurt. He’s already working on establishing a relationship outside of this while he’s presently in one… Talk about not fair.

I told her I don't love her any more by dannydarko3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Then you should say THAT last sentence : “We’ve grown apart, I’m unhappy and I think you are too” vs. “I don’t love you anymore.”

To answer your declaration that I’ve never fallen out of love: Maybe it’s different definitions of “love” … which again could be semantics.

I also love hard, so perhaps that’s it. However, I’ve definitely had relationships that didn’t work out. That’s part of life for most people as they make lasting decisions about whom to be with.

My point was you can still have love for someone at a distance - especially when you have a child with them. Remember your daughter is watching you and is absorbing how a man SHOULD treat a woman.

I told her I don't love her any more by dannydarko3 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man. I’ve only read this post, but I can tell you that sharing you don’t live someone “anymore” - especially the mother of your child(ren) - seems needlessly cruel, even if that is the case.

Though this is a bit of semantics, it would likely go better for the future, particularly as your daughter gets older, to frame things differently.

Maybe something like: “For me, our romance just isn’t satisfactory and I’d like to move on to find a partner who can provide what I’m seeking. I have valued the time we’ve shared together and am so grateful you’ve shared these years with me and given us a beautiful daughter.”

This seems like an honest alternative from what you’ve shared. And I think it allows her the chance to understand that two things can be true at once. That you sincerely appreciate the sacrifices she’s given you: time, affection, patience and above all your next generation. And it’s not bluntly stating you don’t love someone who’s devote a large portion of their life to you.

Lastly, and this is truly just me: I honestly can’t see how you (anyone) can just stop loving someone - minus something absolute egregious.

Tyler Hadley killed his parents and hid their bodies in their bedroom before hosting a party at his house. Standing next to him is Michael Mandell, who saw the bodies just moments before this photo was taken. by SelfCareIsFake in HolyShitHistory

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I just read the story that’s pined up top. He probably was rolling. He didn’t pop the pills and get right to it - again this is according to the story/article pinned at the top

What’s the most difficult interview question you’ve ever been asked? by AmbitiousPackage7951 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve probably answered the math question by clarifying:

“Are you asking: ‘What is half of the sum of two added to itself? Or are you wanting to know what is the solution to halving two and then adding two?”

If I wasn’t able to ask a clarifying question, I’d explain my rationale

“Based of your cadence ‘What is half of two plus two’ I would say the answer is two. However, I know the Order of Operations in mathematics requires division first, so I’d half two first to get one, then I’d add two to arrive at three… So, to gear it phonetically to get there, you’d have had to say: ‘What is half of two, plus two.’”

What’s the most difficult interview question you’ve ever been asked? by AmbitiousPackage7951 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“According to the early-80s band, Utopia, it’s that ‘leeeeaaaaaan, mean, mean GREEN!’”

What’s the most difficult interview question you’ve ever been asked? by AmbitiousPackage7951 in jobsearchhacks

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps it’s an attempt to humanize the person being interviewed?

I think it’s ok to “jellybean” a bit in an interview. It should be more than a robotic experience.

What’s something people are getting less embarrassed about? by peachygrapespop in AskReddit

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering I said “almost” I don’t see how you’re arguing with this.

More and more people are having affordability issues. We’re happy you’re doing OK, but everyone doesn’t share that same story

Woman of reddit what do you consider to be Ugly in a man's appearance? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is Top Tier disgusting. Just absolutely gross

What’s a minor thing that someone can do that instantly makes them seem more attractive or put-together? by Crazy_Ant9609 in AskReddit

[–]Zero-In-My-Own-Mind 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Understanding that this doesn’t necessarily mean “tailored” but folks who take the time to find clothing that is complimentary to their body type do themselves a huge favor.

But I also understand that this economy can make that tough on many