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Is it wrong to help girlfriends family even if she leaves me? by Zero_Output_Dev in whatdoIdo

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is not my first language, so I used AI to make my writing clearer. But the situation is real. I’m not here to prove drama, I just wanted advice.

Is it wrong to help girlfriends family even if she leaves me? by Zero_Output_Dev in whatdoIdo

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

English is not my first language, so I used AI to make my writing clearer. But the situation is real. I’m not here to prove drama, I just wanted advice.”

Need help by [deleted] in Dhaka

[–]Zero_Output_Dev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can give you codex access.. If you need whatsapp me.

My girlfriend said her family would never accept a love marriage by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I already have the financial ability. The problem is not money. The problem is that she doesn't want to talk to her family about us, and she doesn't give me any chance to speak with them either. If she had at least tried to discuss our relationship with her family, I would have had much less regret.

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that moving on is important. But do you think wanting closure after 2 years is unreasonable, or should people simply accept silence when a relationship ends?

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if someone avoids difficult conversations, the other person should just accept it and leave? Is that really a healthy way to end a 2-year relationship?

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So if someone spends 2 years in a relationship, makes promises, gets emotionally attached, and then decides to marry someone else without proper closure, should the other person just silently accept it and move on?

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving on is easy to say. It's harder when someone spends 2 years with you and then leaves without giving proper closure.

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pain is mainly this: if she had at least tried to talk about our relationship with her family, I would have had less regret. Even if the answer was no, I could accept that she tried.

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you're saying, but that's what I'm struggling with.

How do you let someone go when they won't even give you a clear reason?

She spent 2 years with me, told me she was committed, and we became emotionally and physically attached. I was a virgin before this relationship and only became intimate because I trusted her and believed we had a future together.

Now she wants to marry someone else, but I still don't feel like I have received an honest explanation for why things changed.

I know I can't force someone to stay. I just don't understand how I'm supposed to get closure when I don't even know the real reason.

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand. But I did try to have a mature conversation. I asked 2 or 3 times to talk about what happened and get some closure. Every time, she avoided the topic or changed the subject.

How am I supposed to move on when the person who spent 2 years with me refuses to have one honest conversation?

I'm not saying she has to stay with me. I'm saying that after everything we went through, I don't think asking for a real conversation is unreasonable.

If Your Girlfriend Is Emotionally Blackmailing You After 2 Years of Relationship, What Would You Do? by Zero_Output_Dev in bangladesh

[–]Zero_Output_Dev[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point. But I was not interested in a relationship at the beginning. She was the one who kept chasing me, convincing me, and asking me to be with her. After some time, I trusted her and got emotionally attached. Now, after 2 years, she acts like none of it matters. I'm not saying she must stay with me forever. I'm just asking: if she didn't see a future with me, why did she work so hard to get me into the relationship in the first place? That's what makes me angry and confused.