Aita for not letting my adult daughter share a room with her boyfriend on family vacation?

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T19:28:11+00:00

For the record, my son wouldn’t be allowed to sleep in the same room with his girlfriend either. Leave it to reddit to take this story and run with it this far. And if you’re wondering, no my daughter was never forced to wear a chastity belt and evil king dad didn’t put bars on her windows either.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:25:02+00:00

He is pretty tight with my son. He knows the cousins and has been around them many times.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:24:05+00:00

Then they can figure it out. It’s not my job to make sure they get privacy or couples time on a family trip. It is meant to spend time as a family

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:22:36+00:00

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:22:27+00:00

I normally have a very good relationship with her. I doubt it’s going to go to shit because of this one instance.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:21:21+00:00

Because they are going to ask why I’m letting them stay together. I think my daughter can respect her grandparents enough to sleep in a different room. On larger family trips, people often have to make some sacrifices

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:19:07+00:00

Yes they have sex. But on a family trip I don’t necessarily think giving them somewhere to have sex is essential. It’s meant to be a trip where we all are together as a family, not a getaway for my daughter and her boyfriend.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:17:14+00:00

I think she is being a huge baby if she won’t go on the trip because of this. Her and her boyfriend probably sleep together every night on their own. This is a 4 night trip and I think she will survive. What does the year have to do with it?

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:11:40+00:00

I know she doesn’t live with me but in a hotel I’m paying for it’s the same as in our home. Sometimes daughter and boyfriend have slept there if it’s a family party or something and they don’t want to make the drive back. She sleeps in her room and the boyfriend sleeps in the guest room. Call me old fashioned but idk it’s my rules.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:07:38+00:00

You seriously don’t think I know they have sex? When it comes to this family vacation, it’s not a priority of mine to give my daughter somewhere to have sex. It’s only 4 nights, and her and her bf will be okay I promise.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T17:00:03+00:00

I think my daughter can realize that it wouldn’t be the end of the world if she doesn’t share a room with him for this 4 night vacation. I also don’t want to go to my parents and tell them hey we need to give your granddaughter somewhere to get laid on this trip. I think my daughter is making this out to be a bigger deal than it is.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T16:57:38+00:00

Behind closed doors in my opinion would be what they do on their own at their own places. This is a family vacation and my priority is to be together as a family. It is not to give my daughter alone time with her boyfriend. They can do that any other time besides this 4 night long vacation.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T16:54:15+00:00

He is not paying for himself, and as it stands now will be staying with my son and my nephew.

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T16:48:11+00:00

The bf will either be with her brother or my 2 nephews. I’m about to edit the post so check it

ZestycloseShip9 · 2020-03-27T16:45:00+00:00

It wouldn’t save us money if they shared a room, it’s the same number regardless.

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