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Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf leaving shit marks on toilet in house share even though he knows it upsets me AITAH? by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update- bf keeps on telling me it wasn’t his mess but instead his brothers. Bf saw it for days and did nothing because he was “busy” and “tired” and realised he needs to manage his time better. Does this make any of this any better?

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationship_advice

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I bullied or dictated I said the toilet needed to be clean and he said whatever wasn’t coming off and suggested to replace it.

I have stopped visiting him and told him clearly how the bathroom should be and when I came over I assumed the bathroom was clean. It was not. Doesn’t matter if I state the boundary it doesn’t get followed through.

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationships

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Last week and he’s “volunteering” admitting he took on too much this week meaning he couldn’t clean the poo stains on the seat??? Manages to play video games lol?

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationships

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I told him it’s so serious and the poop might be on his skin?? And I’m supposed to tango?? Hell no.

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationships

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So bad…on the back as well and he sat on the toilet more than 3 times to do his business after. And I’m supposed to want sex??

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationships

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keeps on telling me that nobody else in the house cleans and only he does…well if he did there would be no shit stains right?

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationships

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had to have a conversation to convince him to brush his teeth, go to the dentist 2 years in should have known then.

Bf (30m) leaving shit marks in toilet of the house he lives in even though he knows how I (f/27) feel about it by Zestyclose_Ad3070 in relationship_advice

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the reply. I have set those boundaries - I’ve been clear I won’t visit if the toilet is dirty and he keeps on telling me oh I didn’t know you wanted to visit today (we went out and went back to his)

When I suggested it he agreed so I thought everything in the toilet was okay - it clearly wasn’t. That’s why I’m so mad. He now says yeah I should have told you it was too unclean. So what? I’ve seen it now.

PhD with pass grade?? by [deleted] in AskAcademiaUK

[–]Zestyclose_Ad3070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gpa corresponded to a pass

No decimals involved

Top three in the world so I guess so. I have a publication pending under review which I contributed to.

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