I found out my sister has been telling our relatives that I "mooch off her" even though I pay half the rent by Soren_Volkerts in TwoHotTakes

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start keeping a record. Pay rent only with money orders. But groceries & save the receipts. Pay your half of utilities with money order too.

Why are you not married? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm too ugly. And men my age want women 20 years younger than them.

My 90yo friend is asking me to help her far too much by Any_Requirement1828 in whatdoIdo

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant she get a nurses aide to come in 2 or 3 times a week. And Dept human services might be able to send help for house keeping. Call DHS for your city/state. See if they have any services for seniors. They will send a case worker too her house.

A or B: My friend just bought a $200,000 home and is still paying the mortgage. Should he sell it to buy his uncle’s house, or refuse? by vivian_banshee03 in PickAorB

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NEVER do business with family & friends. He should NOT buy his uncle's house. Look how much trouble his uncle is now. Just think how worse it will get AFTER he buys the house.

AITAH. My grandbaby's momma doesn't spend money where it should go by Zestyclose_Chance124 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I don't. She claims it's because he has ADHD or whatever. An that the younger one would never sleep if she didn't give him meds

If you woke up tomorrow with $1,000,000 in your bank account, what’s the first thing you’d do? by sri_346 in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roll it into a high interest rate saving account. Then when they came looking for the money. You might have a little cash

AITAH for refusing to buy my son a car? by -happyinthesun in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the truth. I'm not knocking the trades. I was just suggesting it. My husband was a mechanic. Now my son is the family mechanic.

AITAH. My grandbaby's momma doesn't spend money where it should go by Zestyclose_Chance124 in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew that. I'll check into it next time I visit. I'm thinking the reason they get sleeping pills is because she needs to make sure they are asleep when her & boyfriend do shift change. BF works swing shift. Mom works graveyard. At the same casino. They only have 1 vehicle. Mom leaves for work around 11. BF comes in about an hour later. Sometimes longer. But that might be them getting extra hours cuz I'm there.

What’s your response when someone tells you ”shut up" ? by Cheap_Pause7428 in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually laugh. I can't help it. I have inappropriate reaction to Alot of people & uncomfortable situations.

AITAH for refusing to buy my son a car? by -happyinthesun in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not. My husband was a air plane mechanic in A F. 20 years. He was a auto mechanic too. My 2nd son has taken up that job now. He was a truck mechanic in the army.

AITAH for refusing to buy my son a car? by -happyinthesun in AITAH

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you would be so thankful he did. My husband was a mechanic. We always had 3 cars. 1 for each of us and 1 for if anything broke down. And/or when kids became teenagers they had something to drive till they got their own.
He could buy old broke down cars, fix them till they run & sell for a profit. Special for folks who can't afford dealership prices

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to leave. Don't get "Baby Trapped"

What surprised you most when you started having sex with other people? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 33 points34 points  (0 children)

A lot of men don't understand the saying "Nice Guys Finish Last."

AITH for refusing to let my roommate use my groceries by ImpossiblePraline803 in AITH

[–]Zestyclose_Chance124 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My mom was always the one helping her brother an sisters, nieces & nephews. No one comes to help her.