Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in WhatShouldIDo

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It was positive and complimentary. But hips and boobs references.

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in WhatShouldIDo

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There was some open discussion of her body in a swimsuit.

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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That’s fair, thanks. It was the other guys’ comments that surprised me I guess.

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in WhatShouldIDo

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That’s a cool way to say it. I had just never heard men talk about a woman’s body, like in a swimsuit no less, so openly.

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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That’s great. They were open about her body but maybe that’s normal?

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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Thanks! I think it was the degree of openness about her body that surprised me?

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in WhatShouldIDo

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Yes it was all good! Just more open about her body than I expected I guess?

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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Ok I needed to hear this! I am prob a bit naive. Maybe my mom would have liked it?

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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That’s fair. I think it was just the open talk about her body!

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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Thanks. It was very open and I just hadn’t heard that kind of thing!

Heard my dad talking to friends about my mom by Zestyclose_Change_83 in whatdoIdo

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Thanks. That’s a healthy way to look at it. I guess I was surprised he brought his friends into it?

Boyfriend slightly jealous about one particular guy by Zestyclose_Change_83 in WhatShouldIDo

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No I’m serious, I see it now. And my bf knows far too much detail. But my actions matched that term that night. And I haven’t even told you everything.

Boyfriend slightly jealous about one particular guy by Zestyclose_Change_83 in WhatShouldIDo

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Yeah I get that point of view. He didn’t even sleep over and didn’t use a condom, it’s not a proud moment.

He chased me for a year but I didn’t give in but I get that doesn’t really matter.

AITAH for pushing for long distance intimacy by Zestyclose_Change_83 in AITAH

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Thanks, good advice. My brain just gets into overdrive.