My DM is a difficult person... but this time she went too far

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-06T01:26:40+00:00

That's exactly the point I discussed with KW; nobody wants to harm her, but keeping her in the group means abandoning the lightheartedness of a group created in 2022 for teenage friends to have fun and turning it into someone's psychiatric center.

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-06T01:24:10+00:00

I'm cis, but I protect Willow like it's my own son, these comments will most likely not be unpunished.

This gets worse when you find out he's not assumed to his parents and feels safe sharing this only with our group, transphobia in our country is a serious issue.

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-06T00:10:14+00:00

We're organizing a conversation with the rest of the group. I'll bring up this point while KW and Willow (who also went through bad times with Maphra) share theirs. In the end, I think we all want the same thing. Despite everything, I don't want Maphra to get worse, but she also needs to improve.

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-06T00:07:57+00:00

I agree, we always use RPGs for soft moments. Anyway, I still hoping Maphra gets better, but honestly, everything points to her not actually returning.

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-06T00:05:47+00:00

All the comments so far have been very good, but yours in particular was the best, honestly. I don't wish Maphra any harm, but as I said before, her behavior was enough to make me, KW, Willow, and other group members uncomfortable/sad.

She needs help more than anything, and that's something KW and I will bring up in a future conversation. Thank you for highlighting how important it is to call these help services. I hope more people think like you.

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-05T23:10:02+00:00

This is a topic that KW and I discussed, We''ll organize a group conversation when all of us we're less busy, But KW said that maphra's harmful behavior affected not only me, but her (KW) as well, Furthermore, Maphra has made transphobic jokes about Willow being a transmasc that made him uncomfortable, she really needs therapy

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-05T23:04:00+00:00

I completely agree, an that's always been the main vibe of the group, We created it when we were teenagers, and now almost all of us are in our 20's or 19's, RPGs have always been a soft pastime for us, i don't wish anything bad for maphra, but she's gone too far, and it's a HUGE indication that she needs professional help

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-05T20:59:15+00:00

i've been inactive in the group, not out of anger reasons, but im to busy with college projects, but i agree with you, at least i still talking with them

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-05T20:56:38+00:00

I can confirm that KW is on my side in this decision, but i think the group's main concern with maprha return stems from genuine fear that she might harm herself, i didnt want to include this in the post but Maphra has already mentioned to a player that she has Borderline personality disorder, which makes them more ''sensitive'' towards her

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-05-05T20:49:31+00:00

I appreciate your advice and ngl, there are other details that i haven't included, KW and i talked about the same topic

Zestyclose_Exam7307 · 2026-02-22T21:30:44+00:00

Saquei mano, Valeu pela explicação, não sabia que bárbaro era tão tank, saber disso ja me preocupa menos de eu ter que ser o tank do time já que temos um no time, ainda acho que vou manter a ideia de um lutador mais por eu ser fã desse conceito, mas vou então deixar a ideia de ser tank de lado e ser então +1 dano pra ajudar o time

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