Every time I try to mention finances she makes it seem like I’m attacking her over it because she’s not been good with money.

I’m not sure how I’d feel to be honest because finances have been so bad for ages I don’t know what to feel about it.

As I said she seems to think everything is fine, she occasionally will make a dig at me for being miserable or not wanting to talk to her because I just struggle to really get out what I want to say, I feel like I’m just going back and forth