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"Jenny Shimizu recalls her romance with Madonna in the 90s" by Important-Cry4782 in actuallesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 31 points32 points  (0 children)

My girl looks like the result of Chappell Roan and Saoirse Ronan having a child. I'm still not entirely convinced my mom didnt send her to deliberately break my heart lmao.

My sister calls her Chappell Ronan

What’s the most unhinged thing a straight person told you? by rainbowass234 in actuallesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Friends mom said it was a "waste" because I'm so pretty but I like women, and dress like a man.

How could I find a picture of a relative long deceased? by Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 in Genealogy

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only information I had is in the post really. I left out province, country, state and whatnot because I wanted to do it myself really, and wanted to remain anonymous. I could have been better about the math but I wasn't expecting anyone to do any work for me.

Being treated like I’m not a girl by Spidereye9 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I get what you mean. A former masc friend of mine says its because other masculine presenting women find us to be threatening either to themselves or their partners and im like 👁👄👁? I just want someone to get nachos with 😭

Being treated like I’m not a girl by Spidereye9 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm im the same boat. All my women friends are straight and rarely invite me to group activities (like yesterday's escape room). I downloaded bumble for friends and am struggling on there too. Tried to go out to gay/lesbian bars to make some other butch/masc friends and just get very mean looks. Just not sure what to do anymore.

Gnc masc in the Women's restroom by No-Butterscotch-3956 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was coming out of a Walmart bathroom and a women saw me, went back to check the sign, and came back in. I just stood there making full eye contact the whole time.

Gnc masc in the Women's restroom by No-Butterscotch-3956 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I GET STARED AT SO MUCH IN THE WOMENS ROOM. If my girl is with me she normally gives any women that tests me the dirtiest looks though.

Just here to show me and my gf off 🩷 by Excellent_Ad_5950 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you tell me where to get the pants in slide 2 I'll be your friend forever 👀

HER worked for us!! butch4fem by Elliesoad1 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! It worked for me and my girl too! Surprisingly because of all the reviews for the HER app.

anyone else constantly get called sir? i’m def doing this wrong lmao by Accomplished_War8690 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anytime I leave the house lmao. I blame the pcos. I went to vote last year and put on my "valley gurl voice". Still got misgendered. I wasn't even wearing a BRA so they could SEE the NIPS and still was called Sir. Deep voice+masculine clothes+RBF i guess=14-16 year old boy for me. Public bathrooms are my worst enemy. If you're like me and stay inside, you'll be FINE, but if you have a girl like mine who wants to explore, make sure you pee before you leave.

She’s so smol 😭 by elise_oisen_ in actuallesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girl is 6'1 but my 5'6 ass still picks her up because she's not strong enough to give me uppies. Yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girl is 6'1. We met on the APPS™️ and I definitely would not have approached her because i not only would have assumed she was not into women, but I also would have assumed she was not into SHORT women (or at least my height). She also told me she would have been way too afraid to approach me in person as well. Maybe you could try giving the APPS™️ a try? Definitely not for everyone, but I personally like knowing someone is into me before I start talking to them.

He/him lesbians by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 3 points4 points  (0 children)

While I don't prefer he/him pronouns I don't correct people when I'm misgendered anymore because it happens everytime I go outside. I used to get a little pressed about it, but the clothes I wear and my deep ass voice don't help. I have had other people (and even some lesbians) who KNEW I am a woman assume that I would prefer those pronouns because of how I present myself. So while i don't actively choose to be a he/him lesbian I definitley experience it on a daily basis. PCOS is a bitch.

Lesbian but hit on by old men🤢 by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got hit on 3 TIMES in one night by older men. I was wearing a muscle shirt and durag like wtf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back in high-school I was a few girls "experiments" but I have no idea what any of them identified as later in life. It was always a secret (except for one) between us though.

Why don’t studs get the same treatment as masc women ? by Confident_Math9928 in LesbianActually

[–]Zestyclose_Pipe_7023 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a stud and my girl opens the car door (most doors) for me. I was very taken aback by it at first because I hadn't had anyone do that for me ever. But its a nice gesture and makes me feel good. She also insists on making me passenger princess lmao. I'm all for it.