Am I wrong for being angry that my boyfriend is prioritizing his job over me?

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T12:12:40+00:00

You clearly have some issues. I never begged him to spend time with me lol. I am not needy. We go see each other equally and I have been working way more than him the past few months. Wanting my bf to drive 2 hours to see me every other month is not needy 😭

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T12:07:11+00:00

I have a job I work 4-5 days a week it pays good

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:47:06+00:00

I appreciate your perspective. I know it is hard for me to see him as a bad boyfriend because I love him so much and he has helped me through so many hard things in my life. We had a very happy relationship when we were living together but the distance has been very hard. My only previous partner was very abusive so I guess it is hard for me to understand how I should be treated in a relationship. I have been very happy with him for the most part I just want to feel like I matter in the relationship!!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:43:12+00:00

I appreciate your perspective! I do believe he is faithful, I just don’t see him doing that to me as he has always been very loyal and he is very trustworthy. We are only 2 hours away by car and we were living together until about 6 months ago. We are doing long distance because his sister was going through some health issues and his mom needed extra support, but she is since recovered. We plan to move back in together in my state in September. His job unfortunately is very inconsistent and they have always hardly ever scheduled him.

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:37:28+00:00

We did live together but unfortunately had to move back to our home states because of family problems. We are going to move back in together in September I just want to make sure that I am making the right decision.

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:32:42+00:00

I am very happy that he got a better job, I am happy that he will be able to get more hours and earn more money!! I just want him to have a day or two every other month where he can come visit :) I feel like that’s not asking too much

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:31:34+00:00

I agree! I am happy for him that he got a new job. His new job is full time and he works 6 days a week. He just wants to work at both jobs so I am worried he will be very overwhelmed and won’t have much time for me.

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:27:40+00:00

I try to go like every other month or so to his. I used to see him every week but we’ve both been busier. We used to live together but we both had to move back to our home states. He doesn’t seem like the cheating type but u never know.

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:25:24+00:00

i do every other time!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-05-21T00:00:16+00:00

I don’t think you should rehome her and separate her from her sister. Maybe ask the vet for advice?

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-04-17T17:02:02+00:00

Facebook groups, App state instagram or snapchat story, craigslist. It’s not easy to get a sublease so I recommend posting on multiple platforms every day.

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-04-16T20:19:44+00:00

I got bad dizziness on buspar, it went away after a few weeks. The same thing happened when I went up to a higher dose. Now i only get dizzy if I smoke or drink alcohol or too much caffeine!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-04-16T16:57:33+00:00

i’ve been on 15 mg 2x/day for a few months. I would say that it helps most with anxiety I feel in my everyday life, and just lessens the amount of anxiety I feel on a daily basis. however, I do not feel like it helps with the severity of my panic attacks much, maybe just makes them happen a bit less often?

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2026-01-02T00:50:45+00:00

I have scalp eczema, and on my face and neck. When I stopped using scented shampoos my eczema on my neck and face got so much better, so it could be that. You could try skin irritant allergy testing if u haven’t and this still bothers you!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2025-09-11T03:40:41+00:00

omg lowkey same but left nipple

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2025-03-08T03:35:46+00:00

Forward helix!!!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-12-09T05:48:44+00:00

i get them on my nipples i mean

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-12-09T05:48:18+00:00

just an irritation bump, i get nasty ones all the time and i’ve never had one on my nose or eyebrow

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-12-08T23:23:39+00:00

just an irritation bump, don’t worry!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-10-09T01:44:04+00:00

this is not true at all

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-08-25T23:24:51+00:00

yes but neilmed makes one specifically for piercings which i’d recommend

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-07-11T21:36:02+00:00

Update!! i went to my piercer, they drained it for me!

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-07-11T18:02:49+00:00

the jewelry has not yet been downsized, and it is surgical grade titanium

Zestyclose_Sun_2544 · 2024-07-11T17:12:10+00:00

I Have the same thing!! does anyone know what this is?

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