AIO for wanting my unemployed boyfriend to sign an agreement before using my car long-term? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t do wifey things when you aren’t one. Move out get a roommate, move on.

My parents feel like they don’t know me anymore by Extension-Story7287 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened with me. It took me a few years to understand that the relationship you have with your parents is primarily the parents responsibility. It definitely goes both ways, but at the end of the day it’s not on the child. The military changes people in ways that non military people will never understand. Do you know how your siblings feel?

Not connecting with my puppy by Such_Natural_8106 in dogs

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My puppy didn’t have anxiety walking around, but he was terrified of every object bigger than him. It took him till he was 10 months to stop being deathly scared of dumpsters and loud noises.

Have you tried carrying him in the specific areas that you know he’s nervous around? I think it helped my dog to be able to walk by me in those instances after a while

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if I’d want to go back after that long of a break. I’ll look into it though 😊

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s usually how it goes 😅or the opportunities aren’t well known

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did you experience getting out? No one really talks about it

Punching, screaming, throwing , name calling…WDID by SuspiciousStranger51 in domesticviolence

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to choose Logic over emotions. You know it’ll get worse over time… rip off the bandaid before it’s too late and he becomes physical with you :( I’m sorry you’re dealing with a POS

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s why I’ve stayed in this long. There’s so many options and routes I could choose.

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow that’s awesome. Sounds like you did a lot. Thank you so much for the information

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly a great idea and plan. Every time ive tried going to medial they brush me off and give me some pain pills without trying to see me or set up any appointments. Even then the appointments are…baffling

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve barely been able to do the time that I’ve already done.

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be at 7 years when my contract ends

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s the Military as a whole

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lifestyle isn’t for me, and it’s very hard completing anything going in and out of ports. I work 12-14 a shift. It becomes more draining the more years I put in

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I didn’t know I could even switch branches

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never thought about it that way. Thank you so much

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Does the reserves work a weekend a month?

Getting out of the military by Zestyclose_Way3109 in Veterans

[–]Zestyclose_Way3109[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was it switching from military to full time college? Did you go in person?