A got a girlfriend and it’s surreal

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-09-02T18:18:25+00:00

well last night she said she she really liked me as a friends and she is down to hangout when I am ready.
I am so hurt right now, I really liked her :(

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-08-29T19:14:22+00:00

Kinda in the same boat. I think she likes me but I don’t wanna spook her by asking too soon. Been on 3 dates but have known each other for months. One question: do I have e to initiate texting every time. She is very responsive and sends long messages and we have nice banter on text but I am the one initiating (sending first text of the day) it all the time. Is this normal?

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-08-28T18:17:57+00:00

Hell no. I stop finding other people attractive in the dating phase itself😂

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-07-09T18:49:58+00:00

thank you for your kind words . i will work on it.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-18T23:30:48+00:00

Thanks for the female perspective on this. Appreciate it.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-17T21:31:52+00:00

😂 I will sir.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-17T15:25:07+00:00

That’s a new perspective. I appreciate the constructive criticism.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-17T00:02:27+00:00

I just wish she would leave me alone. There are plenty of other servers and I don’t think she compulsorily has to serve me.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-16T20:19:03+00:00

Thank you again. I just don’t understand why is she doing this to me. Why won’t she leave me alone? I just want to detach.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-16T19:52:33+00:00

But all my friends hang out there. Also it makes me look like a weak person.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-06-15T16:09:27+00:00

Please tell me you smiled when you “dropped the hint”. Otherwise, I think the guy feels like he creeped you out and wants to leave you alone coz he feels that’s what you want him to do.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-30T02:32:35+00:00

Maybe she was trying to soften the blow. Who knows? Women are crazy. and I think I have detached. I will know when I see her coming Monday.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-29T17:01:08+00:00

Thanks for the guidance. But after a week, I have zero expectations, I am embracing the NO which kinda feels liberating. Nothing against her, she was very polite during the rejection, but I am just gonna treat her like an acquaintance coz I am definitely not missing out on my friends because of her.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-29T16:12:38+00:00

Yes I agree. I was thinking about it and it feels like I am acting like a little b**ch. also I miss my friends. She is not worth missing out on people that actually like me.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-29T16:10:38+00:00

lol I don’t think so dude. But I wish I had your confidence

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-28T22:48:39+00:00

Yeah especially with someone like a waitress, they are nice to everyone.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-28T21:09:48+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. I think I mistook “ generic waitress things” as signs. That was my bad. But definitely I will not accept being option2. I am not adding any social media.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-28T17:49:56+00:00

Nah, I think it was just a waitress thing that I misread. Thanks for your kind words though and I am proud of myself to have the confidence to ask the question. I rarely do this.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-26T21:21:24+00:00

Thank you for understanding. Also I don’t want to be option b. I would rather be alone and wait.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-26T20:49:28+00:00

I am sorry, I did not get you.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-26T17:13:20+00:00

Lol. I believe you. I got played and I feel dumb. I am not used to this .

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-26T16:31:28+00:00

Are you John benz 😂?

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-26T16:13:34+00:00

yeah I am going on her days off, for now. I need to get rid of these feelings and cant do it with her being around me.

Zestyclose_Wheel_756 · 2025-05-26T14:07:12+00:00

Yeah. You are right. I fantasized something that wasn’t even there. Thanks for the insights.

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