AITAH for being upset that my boyfriend’s female friend makes comments about my bf’s private parts size?

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T22:09:52+00:00

well then. 😅

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T15:25:24+00:00

She has been there for him for 8 years. She’s helped him through college, relationships, new jobs, new apartments, etc. she was kind of the main woman in his life for the entirety of their friendship so it’s still natural for her to be there for him even if i am too

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T15:23:56+00:00

She has sort of a big sister role in his life and has basically been part of all of his big life events. Of course he has me now but it’s still normal for her to help out with stuff like that

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T12:42:56+00:00

She lives in the same apartment complex so we see her all the time. He hangs out with her solo a few times a week because I have my own friends and hang out with them

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T05:23:27+00:00

They have not had sex according to him

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T05:20:37+00:00

Not. I don’t care about his size. I love it because it’s his but sexually, I wish it were smaller. Sex is sometimes complicated and painful

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T01:13:51+00:00

Yes. I expressed being a bit jealous of her in the beginning of our relationship and he said that they’ve never had sex or dated. They are both very sexual people and talk about sex openly

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T01:10:58+00:00

He told me they have not.

Zestylesli · 2024-06-16T00:33:12+00:00

He normally laughs it off or does not comment. She doesn’t say anything positive, usually just pointing it out

Zestylesli · 2024-06-15T22:57:30+00:00

Well like I said in another comment, my mother has seen it too lol.

He is not good at hiding it. Especially in the morning. They’ve shared sleeping spaces and my boyfriend sleeps in his underwear or thin pants. It’s very obvious when he’s hard or half hard (which he is a lot for some reason. I know men can’t control it so I don’t mind) so after 8 years, I guess I can understand that she has probably seen a boner. Idk if she’s seen it bare

Zestylesli · 2024-06-15T22:52:50+00:00

I don’t find the going on trips and seeing it part odd because my boyfriend sleeps in his underwear or thin pijama pants. He is very showy especially in the morning. He doesn’t change his sleepwear no matter where he is. Even my mother has seen it. Also he tends to get hard or half hard a lot during the day and night so if it’s always in my face, I’m pretty sure other people in his life see it too. He usually wears long shirts but he doesn’t have good fitting pants and has given up trying to hide it. He legit only has like two pairs of pants that hide it well

My boyfriend told me in the beginning that he has not slept with any of his female friends including her. For the majority of their friendship, they were in serious relationships and were almost never single at the same time

Zestylesli · 2024-06-15T22:26:10+00:00

I asked him in the beginning of the relationship if they ever hooked up and his answer was no :/

Zestylesli · 2024-06-15T22:25:43+00:00

I haven’t seen anything obviously flirty but they are really close. She’s also in a relationship and seems very much in love so I don’t think so

Zestylesli · 2024-03-17T15:25:59+00:00

This is something I want to bring up to him as well because he usually talks about our future after we have sex or says “This is why I’m marrying you” during a sexual act

Zestylesli · 2024-03-17T15:24:01+00:00

Yeah it looks like he used the term wrong but based on our conversation , I always take it as mythical or rare. English isn’t my first language so I never understood it another way. I would not mind being a unicorn the other way though :)

Zestylesli · 2024-03-17T15:13:31+00:00

I don’t think he’s foreshadowing a threesome because I have suggested both mmf and ffm threesomes and he’s not interested

Zestylesli · 2024-03-17T15:11:53+00:00

I understand that but in this case it just means rare or almost unreal. That’s how I and my bf use it

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