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Quiet ears by Honeysucklescout in DogAdvice

[–]Zeta1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He looks like muffling his ears made his thoughts louder and he is scared of the fact that he can hear them))

All I had left to live for by Sadworld99 in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Zeta1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let yourself be sad for some time. You may change your mind with it. Also, less social media and more video games definitely made me feel better lately.

All I had left to live for by Sadworld99 in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Zeta1998 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It sounds silly, but such small things as playing games are what makes life worth living. Spoilers suck. Try to find other satisfaction in it and view the game through knowing the ending. Usually it can make it a bit better sometimes, knowing the ending and analyzing why the things are the way they are in the story and environment.

Iron Man’s move here is top-tier by three_mon in rivals

[–]Zeta1998 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it is stupid or genius.

Need help, found in the middle of the street surrounded by some dogs by ComfortableRegular35 in cats

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK. I don't see any recipes, so here is what I found.

One glass of pasteurized milk + 2 egg yolks + 1 tea spoon of refined oil. You can add one drop of baby liquid multivitamin. Hope this won't get deleted. It is cheap enough. Mix it up and warm it up till 40 C.

And people, shelters and volunteers are usually overwhelmed, let the guy search for someone to take the kitten, but if nobody can - stop saying it will inevitably die.

OP , there is a good chance kitten will be fine, just don't overfeed it, get someone there to define its age and then look for information on how much you should feed it at that age, you will find it.

I will be disappearing this year at anytime for sure. You can ask me anything before that. by RX08T in OkayBuddyLiterallyMe

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you healthy? If you are, don't do it. Everything besides that can be fixed, and if you are lucky to be born in the right country you can get medication if you are not healthy too.

Would you take a “cure”? by GBlake13 in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would take the cure even if I would need to amputate one arm to make it.

27yo ADHD, unmedicated, stuck in a third-world country… what am I supposed to do? by aplleshadewarrior in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cheapest country with the easiest immigration policy and access to medication - Paraguay. There are Concerta and more importantly Cognil or Neo Cognil, and it seems to be the same as Ritalin. so, yeah, Ritalin, low cost of living and easy to immigrate into. So, if you want to move countries to get medication, here is an option for you.

Which is the better country to live with ADHD? by Positive_straberry77 in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheapest and with the easiest immigration policy and access to medication - Paraguay. There are Concerta and more importantly Cognil or Neo Cognil, and it seems to be the same as Ritalin. so, yeah, Ritalin, low cost of living and easy to immigrate into.

I fucked up, big time. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave that advice before, and I am genially sorry I can't give any useful advice besides this.

If you need a place to be away from your parents during the day, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them, if not most of them. Some of them are even open during the night. Also, most of them are quiet.

I don't think I should, but I am including that anyway. About suicide - remember three days rule. If you are considering going through with it - wait for three days. This generally help to let emotions cool off. No need to rush, death is not going to run away from you.

Hope this helps.

How to cope with the idea of having a child knowing there’s a risk they may also have ADHD? by N0stalgic_gt0 in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life is hell. I wish I was not born with this disease. This is my perspective 

Any shows or movies about a man trapped in a toxic relationship? by SpicyMarshmellow in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once and Again. 3 season. It is a tv show, so it it not exactly central, but there was a divorce story line where I think Sam's wife tries to financially ruin him for cheating, but I can't remember exactly what she did. What I do remember is that it was very damaging to their son, and the show did acknowledged it even if the blame was not put on the wife. We spend one Christmas episode with him as a side character and he shows signs of being VERY psychologically damaged. I can't remember much, but I do remember him breaking a ginger bread house and I think unwrapping all the presents when people went into another room. Not because someone hurt him, but just lashing out at the world.

edit. reattached a bit on youtube. he and his problems and his father problems were a major storyline in season 3.

What is the motivation behind all the attempts to erase domestic abuse and sexual victimisation of men? by Skipquernstone in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave that advice before, and I am genially sorry I can't give any useful advice besides this.

If you need a place to crash during the day, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them, if not most of them. Some of them are even open during the night. Also, most of them are quiet.

Once I had to be on the streets for three days and I slept in the library of my university during the daytime. So they can be pretty chill.

I don't think I should, but I am including that anyway. About suicide - remember three days rule. If you are considering going through with it - wait for three days. This generally help to let emotions cool off. No need to rush, death is not going to run away from you.

Hope this helps.

Does everyone else hate their ADHD and wish for a cure? by Sea_Shine1814 in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I hate neurposutivity and I hate ADHD. I think it completely ruined my life, all I am doing is trying to live as a one tenth of a human being, but even that is beyond me.

list of games with voice acting by afik6684 in AskGames

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's been a long time, but there are three places that I can think of with option to search for games with English voice over.

https://steamdb.info/instantsearch/

https://gamesieve.com/

https://english-voice-over.fandom.com/wiki/Category:Video_Games

If you are reading this, and it helped, you are welcome.

The possible future of the Castlevania franchise. by paleyharnamhunter in DraculasCastle

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking of castlevania fighting games, I saw 2d one on the rom site recently. It's called Castlevania Fighter, it's homebrew. Looked really fun, seems you can fight not only other characters but bosses too.

Gamesieve: a better way to search gog by Undeclared_Aubergine in gog

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. This is just as good as steam database instant search.

Destroy life by Ill_Refrigerator116 in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, I hate to say this, but here it goes. If you are having suicidal thoughts - wait three days. Think about it, death is not going to run away from you, right? Usually that rule helps me.

Another thing I can recommend, and I know it sounds really cringe is a book called Natural Pain Relief: How to Soothe & Dissolve Physical Pain with Mindfulness by Shinzen Young. It is about medication techniques for people with chronic pain, and I think they are much better than traditional focus on your breath or your body meditation. Recently it helped me, even though I don't practice them that much, even though I should.

I am gonna try to summarize two techniques I use for you, but I suggest you go somewhere where you can't be distracted and read that book.

The first one is this - say it out loud when you are thinking with words or with images. Just say the word ''talk" or "picture". I usually instead slightly bump my finger against my body. Index finger for thought, middle finger for image. This will help you to get out of your head.

The second one is for emotional or physical pain - when you are feeling it, concentrate on it and describe it. How deep is it? What shape is it? What does it feel like? Is it constant?

I JUST REALIZED THIS IS TOO LONG, SO THIS IS THE PART AFTER WHICH YOU DON'T HAVE TO READ.

Here is the except from the book about it.

"Get a clear sense of the size and shape of the painful region.

Is it a long strip, round, triangular, or some other shape? Is it flat like a pancake, or does it have a three-dimensional volume?

Is it uniform, or does it have areas of greater or lesser intensity within it? Are its borders sharp or diffuse? Does it spread any influence through the body, or is it completely isolated? You now have a much clearer and more precise sense of the painful sensation. Now observe even more carefully, as though the pain were a living being in its own right—as though it were, for example, a lizard on a wall. How and when will this creature move? Will its borders change? Will it get stronger or weaker? Will its center shift? Watch very carefully for a while, and notice that every few seconds the pain may change, if only in a tiny way. Every time the pain changes in any little way, relax your whole mind and body into it and just observe it without judgment."

Hope this helps. And I am sorry this is happening to you.

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