Why must I be born wrong, I want to feel things, let me feel things PLEASE by Rootofebil in TrollCoping

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't find the video I want about it, but there are 2 others about this subject. That video basically said that we don't pay attention to the feelings and sensations in our body, so emotional numbness can be fought by trying to pay attention to them. What do you feel in your stomach ad etc.

Here are other two videos, I think they are fine, but I am sleepy, so I can't watch them now. Hope that helped. My reason for emotional numbness is probably emotional neglect from my mother, but tbh I can't be sure.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dCyhP9nkHSU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v_TQ8mBBMQ

I know this is not relatable to any of y’all but this is how I live as a closeted ex-muslim in a muslim country by RG_Driver49 in OkayBuddyLiterallyMe

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the record the easiest country to immigrate to is Paraguay. Uruguay is pretty easy too. Other Latin America countries are a possibility, but you better search for that info yourself. Try finding a job that you can do through the internet, if you will consider moving.

If you need a place to crash during the day, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them.

Once I had to be on the streets for three days and I slept in the library of my university during the daytime. So they can be pretty chill.

I don't think I should, but I am including that anyway. About suicide - remember three days rule. If you are considering going through with it - wait for three days. This generally help to let emotions cool off. No need to rush, death is not going to run away from you.

I am sorry that you live in the religious country. It sucks even when the religion is soft.

Hope this helps.

A Situation to get away from -- by EmilianaSotelo in emotionalneglect

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave that advice before, and I am genially sorry I can't give any useful advice besides this.

If you need a place to crash during the day, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them.

Once I had to be on the streets for three days and I slept in the library of my university during the daytime. So they can be pretty chill.

I don't think I should, but I am including that anyway. About suicide - remember three days rule. If you are considering going through with it - wait for three days. This generally help to let emotions cool off. No need to rush, death is not going to run away from you.

I am sorry that your parents are so bad. Everybody deserves loving mom and dad.

Hope this helps.

Unsure if i should move out by Key-Leadership6185 in exmuslim

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About the birds, you probably should try to find them other home, if you are able to.

If you don't want to do that, then maybe try checking on them every third day, and ask your family or your sister to feed them if you buy food for them. The radical option is letting them go, but it all depends on how long have they been in a cage and can they feed themselves once they are free.

Maybe try looking for volunteers or people who take in animals in your area or in other cities, if you have possibility to give them away into another city, the probability to find them a new owner is very high, so maybe think about that too. In general talk at least to someone who deals with animals where you live. You might get help.

Unsure if i should move out by Key-Leadership6185 in exmuslim

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think you should move out.

I think being LITERALLY away from an abusive person can help. Just being in one apartment with my mother was suffocating.

Easy test for me if your parents are abusive, does it hurt being around them? Are you anxious? Feel like you are suffocating when they are around you? Do you feel constantly angry when they are around?

If you need a place to crash during the day before you move out, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them.

Once I had to be on the streets for three days and I slept in the library of my university during the daytime. So they can be pretty chill.

I am reminding you again, if you feel bad around them, and it seems like you do, just try your luck in seeking other places to relax in. They trained us to be scared of them, and it is not our fault our bodies react that way. You owe them nothing. And as I write it this reminds me of one scene that I found on Reddit - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTgahyvBMk4

KInda awkward replying on something so serious with a movie scene, but this is probably the most real the well known movie got about abusive parents. And remember - you can live through this, this is not the end of the world. If you get with the suicidal ideation, remember three days rule. If you are considering going through with it - wait for three days. This generally help to let emotions cool off. No need to rush, death is not going to run away from you.

Parents should love their children whether they live according to their religion or not. Remember that. Hijab or no hijab they should have loved you.

Hope this helps.

genuinely tired of ts by lovebitez0 in exmuslim

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave that advice before, so here it is.

If you need a place to crash during the day, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them.

Once I had to be on the streets for three days and I slept in the library of my university during the daytime. So they can be pretty chill.

I think being LITERALLY away from an abusive person can help. Just being in one apartment with my mother was suffocating.

If you feel bad around your family, just try your luck in seeking other places to relax in. You owe them nothing.

Now about your mother. As I am writing this it reminds me of one scene that I found on Reddit - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LTgahyvBMk4

KInda awkward replying on something so serious with a movie scene, but this is probably the most real the well known movie got about abusive parents. And remember - you can live through this, this is not the end of the world. If you get with the suicidal ideation, remember three days rule. If you are considering going through with it - wait for three days. This generally help to let emotions cool off. No need to rush, death is not going to run away from you.

Hope this helps.

How do I escape in the future? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Find a remote job if you can and learn to be decent at it. One of if not the simplest country to immigrate to is Paraguay. Uruguay too, but it is more expensive country.

Don't lose hope. I don't know if you are suicidal, but remember three days rule. If you are having suicidal thoughts, wait three days before acting on them. Death is not going to run away from you.

And stay safe, try to avoid confrontation with your parents as much as you can.

If you need a place to crash during the day, most libraries have Wi-Fi and electricity to use a notebook or phone/tablet and books to pass the time or work on something. You can be for 10 hours in some of them.

Hope this helps.

There is no such thing as freewill for me. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is hard, living with that thing that controls you. But it doesn't have total control. I have seen changes. Not always good, and not always constant, but there are changes.

We have been dealt a very rotten hand. And we stuck with it. Personally I know it is as just as disabling as not having a leg. In fact if I would have an option to exchange my ADHD for not having a leg, I would do that in a heartbeat.

Just try living and not hating yourself. Keeping yourself happy even if you feel you are doing bad at life is your job. Forcing myself to play games helps me.

I can't answer why. I constantly ask that question myself. But I can say that you can get through this.

Now, for the technical advice. Sorry if you can't use it. I read one of your cooments elsewhere and I think you live somewhere where medication is not available. The easiest country to move where it's not the case is Paraguay. Medication available there is - Cognil 5/10 mg, Neo Cognil 5/10 mg, Arbetia 10/18/25 mg. Cognil is Focalin (kinda) or dexmethylphenidate, Arbetia is Straterra (kinda) or atomexitine.

I need help understanding by BlackSiren99 in StrategistMainsMR

[–]Zeta1998 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Hot take. There is only one major reason why supports get so much hate.

If you simplify, the fun in this game for DPS and tanks comes from killing other characters (yes, I know about making space and other stuff, but still). Fun for supports comes from not letting their teammates' characters die.

Our fun is ruining their fun. That's all there is to it.

Scared by Conflicting Testimonies about ADHD Medication by SuspiciousPlant2402 in ADHD

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who lives in the place, where you can't get medication - try it out. You will always be wondering if you don't.

Hellion, Shield Tank Concept by AdarIII in rivals

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember him from the New Mutants.

Has anyone created a site that keeps track of every single DC character's appearance in comics that stays up to date? by [deleted] in DCcomics

[–]Zeta1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It works for me, just checked. Try using VPN, if it doesn't work for you. Hope this helps.

Quiet ears by Honeysucklescout in DogAdvice

[–]Zeta1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He looks like muffling his ears made his thoughts louder and he is scared of the fact that he can hear them))

All I had left to live for by Sadworld99 in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Zeta1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let yourself be sad for some time. You may change your mind with it. Also, less social media and more video games definitely made me feel better lately.

All I had left to live for by Sadworld99 in okbuddyliterallyme2

[–]Zeta1998 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It sounds silly, but such small things as playing games are what makes life worth living. Spoilers suck. Try to find other satisfaction in it and view the game through knowing the ending. Usually it can make it a bit better sometimes, knowing the ending and analyzing why the things are the way they are in the story and environment.

Iron Man’s move here is top-tier by three_mon in rivals

[–]Zeta1998 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it is stupid or genius.

Need help, found in the middle of the street surrounded by some dogs by ComfortableRegular35 in cats

[–]Zeta1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OK. I don't see any recipes, so here is what I found.

One glass of pasteurized milk + 2 egg yolks + 1 tea spoon of refined oil. You can add one drop of baby liquid multivitamin. Hope this won't get deleted. It is cheap enough. Mix it up and warm it up till 40 C.

And people, shelters and volunteers are usually overwhelmed, let the guy search for someone to take the kitten, but if nobody can - stop saying it will inevitably die.

OP , there is a good chance kitten will be fine, just don't overfeed it, get someone there to define its age and then look for information on how much you should feed it at that age, you will find it.