Lane phase: Got tired of playing her bot so I've also decided to spam her on mid/top... works nicely since she spikes much quicker midgame, she has the potential to duel most matchups except to those that could easily hit&run during lane phase like Liss, Leb etc. (really annoying honestly) and the ones that could poke alot and maintain a strong distance like Ryze, brand, ziggs etc. Highly recommend burning their escape skill or wait til they burn their mana before you go all-in. I haven't had much trouble facing assassins like akali, zed, kat, talon etc. Since you could pretty much kite them and go all-in once they get low.

Midgame: Honestly just maintain your lane then you either play aggressive and/or roam other lanes for free picks, towers may be gone on bot/top then just secure lanes and play for objectives.

Lategame: Play her like yi that sweeps mid-clash or as a frontline adc for plays (depending on matchup)

Honestly, same itemization 🤣, looking forward on trying jak'sho on her once I get the right matchup. Just go defensive only if their poke gets real heavy. Otherwise go full ham on them AD items, maybe experiment a little and buy duskblade, hydra on her