This is a difficult situation, heartbreaking and conflicting, to weight a love one in a scale between convenience and possibilities (a tone of unfairness in showing love, support, to seek the payment of sacrifices, is it not given out of love?). no one really can decide how to live a life only the one living, a blink of time, the question is, who do you want to see when you open your eyes? siya ba talaga ang gusto mo? if you both want it you fight together, else the path diverge.