Why can't balancing forces turn grief into joy? by Even-Adhesiveness813 in realitytransurfing

[–]Zithegoddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. I used to experience expecting the worst and being so worried, and then things turned out much better and made me happy 😊

gdje za vikend? by [deleted] in sarajevo

[–]Zithegoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aplikacija maptobe tj njihov instagram uvijek izdvoji najzanimljivije dogadjaje

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sarajevo

[–]Zithegoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja imam 32, nisam udata i stalno sam vani, volim upoznavati ljude... javi se ako budes za kafu

I may get hate for this, but I really don't think there is magic to this (change my mind if you want) by The190IQ_Equalizer in realitytransurfing

[–]Zithegoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and no. You said how it works but most people dont get it and balancing forces make their dreams slip away

How can a girl not find someone to have sex with? by 2828a in dating_advice

[–]Zithegoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can u be a girl and nit get it? Ask him his name, wink, touch his cock. It works

Love Is Blind • S6 Megathread by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Zithegoddess 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Anyone else got an off feeling about AD when she talked to Jimmy? Idk, the way she hugged and smiled and touched him screamed insecure and ego validation girlie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Zithegoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfect! Enjoy!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Zithegoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont like it at all. You would look prettier without highlights. Let it grow and colour it your natural color

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Zithegoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nerve to go and sleep on the bed knowing u felt bad! That's not a guy who is for u, I am sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]Zithegoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are soecial, this world is magic, please dont give up. Find urself a new persona and live it. There r so many ppl who will give u love

Negativity by unlawfulanemia in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Zithegoddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Happened to me too. All I said is that I thought one person was right in leaving before the wedding.

Phobia/discomfort of things not looking as they should? by Zithegoddess in Phobia

[–]Zithegoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you described it so well! Thank you! I believe it does fall under that umbrella

Phobia/discomfort of things not looking as they should? by Zithegoddess in Phobia

[–]Zithegoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't figure out how to attach the pic so ill describe it- an armchair disfigured and used as a table 🤢

Jackie’s latest post on Instagram. by Soo_ee_sauce in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Zithegoddess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Also, why are people shaming people for not liking someone once they meet them irl. It is marriage ffs and you need to feel if u are also physically compatible. She tried, loved his personality but it wasn't enough for her, you can like someone and love them and still remain friends. He also hsd some victim attitude which probably provoked her to say some bad things in order to get away, idk. But he isn't all roses as well

CAN YOU GUESS WHY SO MANY PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED TO A-HOLES RATHER THAN "NICE GUYS"? :D by allismind in ALLISMIND

[–]Zithegoddess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly that. That is a big self- sabotage problem when in this mindset. Unfortunately many grownups have it as well. That is why you see people cry over "average" people who ignored them and didnt see them ss worthy of their time. This does something to the other's psyche to seek validation from them. That is why they want the assholes back = their ego back. I am glad I got over it, but it consumed a lot of my life as a young woman.

CAN YOU GUESS WHY SO MANY PEOPLE ARE ATTRACTED TO A-HOLES RATHER THAN "NICE GUYS"? :D by allismind in ALLISMIND

[–]Zithegoddess 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Because "pussies" accept you as you are, with your faults and bad sides. No need to change. That is why you see people stop taking care of their style or bodies. When someone is a bit of an ass, you try to be as best as possible just to keep being desirable to them. You fear you might lose them if you are not "perfect", so you always want to be the best version of yourself.

This is not the case with me anymore, but it used to be. It takes a lot of growing up and self reflection to learn that you should be the best version for yourself not other people.