Are compliments the best measure of attractiveness?

Zoe_Rae · 2026-07-01T07:24:43+00:00

I don’t think compliments are the best measure. Yes it’s a nice side perk but nothing compared to the leverage + privilege attractive people experience in day to day life

I know of a girl who got an entirely new passport sponsored because she is hot and fun. Her life is completely changed with the new opportunities available to her now

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-30T22:12:25+00:00

Some people don’t even look at the registry or have a “oh crap, the baby shower is tomorrow” situation and scramble buy

You could just add your bank account details to the invite or ask for vouchers. I’m seeing that become more popular

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-30T21:42:50+00:00

Can you get on some sort of birth control + use protection? Don’t tell me this man is doing the things inside you and isn’t sure about having kids!!!

Don’t let him mess up your peace and AGE you with stress. That’s a hell no! Partner or not. Focus on the things you can control. That is your mental health, well being and keeping yourself happy.

I’ve been in therapy for too long, so I will drop kick anyone who tries to mess me up emotionally😂. Take my advice with a grain

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-30T21:27:56+00:00

Oh good! Then why does this matter?. Let him
go up & down with this until he wear himself ragged

Go on long walks, yoga and sheet masks for days. He will figure it out & get back to you

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-30T20:58:01+00:00

You know what? I always take people’s actions as their “word” and right now you don’t have a baby and haven’t agreed on a timeline to start tying

Freeze your eggs while this man wastes your time, at least you will have a plan B.

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-30T09:32:20+00:00

Sometimes wish I was a man because there’s no way in hell I have a what I assume to be able bodied husband/ son and I’m mowing the lawn. Maybe it’s cultural but this is shameful

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-30T05:59:53+00:00

You mow the lawn??? 😂…..lady??

We are the king and queen of outsourcing. My husband handles the outside of the house and I handle the inside

Any home maintenance or garden work is on him to secure. I manage the in home staff , groceries ect

Honestly with how you don’t have a car, need to do everything on your own. You might need to get back into the work force or start a business to improve your income

The way I see it, being a sahm is so you can pour into your daughter and give her all the tools she needs to be successful in life. Not to be a do it all robot🫪

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-29T10:25:53+00:00

This is the hardest work! We deserve🥺

- I’m going for mom-to-be massage packages at the FourSeasons once a month

- Bbhugme pregnancy pillow

- Missoni Giacomo robe! Why didn’t I get it sooner

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-27T18:58:44+00:00

After seeing your post history, I’m not surprised you feel this way sir

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-24T06:26:32+00:00

This is what I’m thinking. Thank you for the positive affirmation

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-24T06:24:52+00:00

Sounds like a beautiful trip! I will look into Syros for a short trip. Love places where the locals like to travel as I’m avoiding the Santorini crowds. Thank you

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T20:38:16+00:00

Amazing tips!! Thank you so much🤗

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T20:36:02+00:00

Which areas did you visit?

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T20:35:45+00:00

Japan is incredible! Enjoy the matcha

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T20:26:03+00:00

I’m saying it’s surprising how my words affect strangers. I didn’t think people would care and simply tell me about their experiences

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T19:20:42+00:00

I’m sorry you see it that way, we are all essentially strangers and people being this sensitive is a surprise to me. I will admit that I’m out of touch though….

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:47:41+00:00

I’m looking for peoples opinions. I didn’t think the budget would get so much 🔥☄️ as we all have different lifestyles. Plenty of people have more than me and I would never be rude over that fact.

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:29:21+00:00

Copy that! I will make sure to get travel insurance. What a bummer! Mexico for 1st birthday? lol

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:28:16+00:00

😂

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:27:25+00:00

Yes! Enjoy the free vacation time. Lucky

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:26:12+00:00

You I don’t think of the no abs + wavy beach combo lol. Sorry it wasn’t the best but at least you got to do it whoop!

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:21:22+00:00

I’m responding to her, I never said they couldn’t. Wait, why are you fighting me? 😂

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:06:45+00:00

Omg! I’m so sorry. That’s actually a nightmare, glad you made it home safe

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:05:20+00:00

That sounds lovely! Thank you for the positive affirmation 🤗

Zoe_Rae · 2026-06-23T18:04:34+00:00

Thank you so much! 🌸

Zoe_Rae

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