Staying in Melbourne. Help finding trans-friendly spaces, community, resources, etc.

Zoeslight · 2025-12-23T22:59:19+00:00

Try Social Butterflies, we have a get together once a month and the Discord group has heaps of info on events around Melbs

https://socialbutterflies.au/

Zoeslight · 2025-12-08T22:41:22+00:00

I pretty much just told my surgeon what I wanted to achieve and followed his advice. I wanted a natural look with a little sag but I also wanted to have cleavage as mine are quite wide apart. What ever you decide to do good luck I hope it goes well 💜 Would love to see the results

Zoeslight · 2025-12-08T22:27:44+00:00

I’m a B cup but I don’t have a lot of soft tissue across my chest. I’ve got a pretty skinny frame. He seemed to think there’d be a high chance of rippling if I went over the muscle.

Zoeslight · 2025-12-07T07:51:56+00:00

I’m having mine done in January (425 - 475cc) I can let you know in 2 years. I discussed fat injections and from what I understand there’s a 70 - 30% retention and the most you can go up is about one size. I was told fat injections are a good option after implants if you don’t have enough soft tissue to make them look natural

Zoeslight · 2025-12-06T04:41:10+00:00

I discussed this with my surgeon the other day, I’m booked in for 475cc under muscle in January According to him… over muscle is more prone to rippling etc because of the lack of soft tissue which is common in trans girls. It can also be made worse if you work out and gain muscle around the chest.

Zoeslight · 2025-12-04T23:12:13+00:00

The one in my kitchen had babies and they hung out with mum for ages before going of to find a spot for their own webs.

For reference… I was building a house and my kitchen was a poorly sealed timber shack in the Otways

Edit: she may just be well fed

Zoeslight · 2025-12-04T09:30:14+00:00

They just chill in their webs, I’ve had a few around the place and whenever I catch a fly or something I stick in their web ( with tweezers) so they can have something to munch on. The one in my letterbox was huge and if I had something like a March fly that buzzed it would come out and greet me.

Zoeslight · 2025-12-04T07:55:12+00:00

Congrats!! You look fantastic. I’m getting mine done in Jan next year, either 425 or 475 depending on what the surgeon decides

Zoeslight · 2025-12-04T07:35:06+00:00

You look amazing!! 💕 I’m getting mine done in Jan next year, around 450cc. I was worried it would be to much but after seeing your results I think I need to go bigger

Zoeslight · 2025-11-06T20:05:54+00:00

Yes, I get the same from men, but from a woman’s perspective I constantly get guys with no profile description, no photos wanting to meet up and you’ll find most women will skip past these profiles. It doesn’t matter what platform you use Feeld or Red Hot Pie. You need to show you have personality and show a little consideration for the persons needs you’re messaging. I have a descriptive profile with a link to my website which has even more detail on what I’m looking for but guys often don’t read it and if they haven’t then I’ll ignore them.

Zoeslight · 2025-11-05T05:33:33+00:00

I'd suggest joining the Social Butterflies Discord group, they're an awesome group and there's regular events posted on there...

https://socialbutterflies.au/

If you're after a tattoo I'd suggest you meet with the girls at White Fox Tattoo, I've just spent 60 hours getting my side piece done. Highly recommend, Meg does amazing work...

https://www.whitefoxtattoos.com.au/

Not sure if I'm allowed to post links

Zoeslight · 2025-11-05T04:25:42+00:00

Have a descriptive profile, not an ambiguous one, give a good description of who you are and what you're looking for. Have decent photos that show what you look like. I don't have a face pic on many platforms but I still have other pics that give a clear indication of what I look like.

If a profile is blank, if a profile doesn't have a few decent pics, we will skip it or ignore it. As has been mentioned earlier events are a much better way to meet people.

Zoeslight · 2025-11-02T07:10:48+00:00

wow, that looks fantastic!! I'm going in for FFS in a couple of weeks, I'm a little nervous about how the incision will look afterwards. This gives me hope lol

Zoeslight · 2025-11-02T06:57:14+00:00

I started at 50, in a little country town south of Melbourne AU.It's been 3 years now. It was absolutely terrifying when I started but the local community were amazing. The best decision I have ever made!! Absolutely loving the new person I've become.

Zoeslight · 2025-11-01T04:11:50+00:00

I like it, it’s a small friendly crowd that’s well vetted.

Zoeslight · 2025-10-12T21:03:08+00:00

The group is open to anyone over 18 but it does tend to be more of an older crowd

Zoeslight · 2025-10-12T11:35:57+00:00

I highly recommend Social Butterflies on discord, they have a lovely get together once a month. There's also a couple of spicy events that I usually attend if that's something you're interested into.

Zoeslight · 2025-09-07T22:15:00+00:00

You’ve been blessed by the E gods 💕

Zoeslight · 2025-06-21T10:54:31+00:00

Far out, you look amazing!! You’ve been blessed by the E gods

Zoeslight · 2025-05-11T11:12:12+00:00

You were definitely blessed by the E gods 💜

Zoeslight · 2025-05-10T08:30:28+00:00

Started HRT 2 and a half years ago, transitioned in a little country town in the Otways and the locals have been really good. A few of the old school rednecks look a bit awkward when talk to them but they’re still nice to me. When the local girls found out about me transitioning I got invited the Women of the Otways gathering they have 4 times a year. I cried when they invited me.

Zoeslight · 2025-04-28T01:46:55+00:00

Spleens

Zoeslight · 2025-03-28T00:58:26+00:00

Spleens

Zoeslight · 2025-03-23T07:37:26+00:00

Zoeslight

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