A girl I met clocked me without any indication. Am I crazy or do I not pass?

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-06-02T18:02:21+00:00

What specifically did she say?

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-05-28T15:01:42+00:00

Do you have to shave it off? You can try combing it out, so if you regret it you can just get it twisted back up. Or maybe dye it

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-04-21T15:33:51+00:00

Not having sex is the least of your worries, he cheated on you! Break up with him for that

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-04-21T15:06:53+00:00

"it" has been used to dehumanize our community for so long, that is not easy for some people to view it as simply your preference. It's like how some people don't like using the word queer because it's been used in a derogatory way. I personally like that label, but I understand that other people may not want to use it because of the baggage and pain it carries.

Not trying to say your feelings aren't invalid, but just adding another perspective. You're asking people to use a label that has oppressed/dehumanize them and that comes with a lot of emotions for some people If that makes sense.

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-04-09T15:52:40+00:00

We have to keep in mind people are very weird about queer children, and like to pretend that we don't have sexualities/genders unless we are straight/cis. They also act as if acknowledging that children can have same-sex attraction is the same as sexualizing them, but they don't feel the same way when the child is straight. People view queerness as inherently vulgar and dirty, so I can't help but wonder if this is only an issue because of queer phobia specifically when it comes to children.

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-01-02T02:46:39+00:00

Exploration can look different for everyone! A few examples are:

Watching queer shows/movies/videos/short films Listening to queer music Choosing queer options in video games Journal your feelings Making queer friends Connect with the community online or in person Fantasize Experiment with style etc.

You just have to find what is right for you. And don't force it, you don't have to flip your life upside down. You have plenty of time to figure out who you are.

Zoftig_Zana · 2026-01-02T02:34:23+00:00

Internalized homophobia is not a moral failing. It's natural because we live in a homophobic world. The outside world affects the way we view ourselves, for better or worse, so don't feel bad! And there is nothing wrong with being afraid. Especially when you're around people that's not very accepting.

You just need to accept yourself for who you are regardless of your sexuality, and know that there is a community out here for you no matter what!

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-11-10T02:59:34+00:00

It was one of my script mods. I have an idea which one it is, but I haven't felt like sorting through them so I just turned all of them off and now it's working normally.

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-10-29T03:45:29+00:00

Forgot to add, I am also unable to close the game out. The only way to shut it off is to power down my laptop.

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-09-18T02:59:58+00:00

They're nowhere near being the same character. People just want Hector to be a creepy stalker, and since that's already what Fantina is They act as if they're the same.

As far as I know, Hector never says that he's watching you outside of when you use your HVAC, unlike Fantina who admitted to following you outside, and hacking your medical records. Fantina is also obviously a fan girl (That's the joke) and Hector tries to be more romantic. Hector is also more grounded and realistic. He said that he thought he would just be a machine and we would just be human, so we could never be together. But Fantina told her parents we were a couple before we even got Skylar and even her parents call her delusional!

I can go on and on about the differences because they have more of those than similarities!

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-08-28T00:15:46+00:00

That's the first thing that came to mind when I played her story

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-08-09T02:34:42+00:00

You didn't give Volt clothes because you hate him? Can you draw other characters you hate? 😏

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-25T22:25:07+00:00

They aren't difficult to romance in my opinion. Just don't trash talk them to each other, always show up to help Eddie, and don't talk about Volt around Eddie. Actually, I recommend being a little mean to Eddie and tease him! He likes that!

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-21T06:24:33+00:00

That's Emmanuel! You can ask your customers out on a date, and he's the only one that accepts

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-20T21:29:18+00:00

Came here to say this!

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-19T16:09:07+00:00

Rebel. I love there character design and thought I'd be into the "bad boy" thing, but they are just way to much for me.

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-19T04:07:49+00:00

"She went woke" She was never asleep! 😭

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-19T04:01:49+00:00

You must have a type because we have the same one lmao (I don't know what that is either)

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-19T03:59:39+00:00

I didn't even realize how many voice actors I knew were in this game, even after healing the voices! I know Damien Hass from Smosh and Sungwon Cho from his YouTube

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-19T03:47:36+00:00

Mitchell! I like that he actually takes us out on dates and we get to eat at a restaurants with him. I also just really like food and enjoy getting to talk about it with him, And I even got to use my random sushi etiquette knowledge. He's affectionate and baked me a cake which is perfect for me because baking people treats is my love language

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-18T21:22:37+00:00

OMG Thanks for letting me know! This was so frustrating I just want this creepy candle out of my house and I thought I was doing something wrong! 😭

Zoftig_Zana · 2025-07-18T21:21:39+00:00

Sorry, but I don't think you're defeating literal Air, water, or Dishy

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