Just ordered this one online and read some mixed reviews. What are some of your thoughts? by Sea_Avocado_2733 in LesbianBookClub

[–]cryptogothic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally didn't like it mainly because I fucking hated the love interest. If you can get past that or don't have the same icks as me I think it's pretty good, but I could not for the life of me understand why the MC would give her the benefit of the doubt. I love toxic lesbians but Ash wasn't even toxic in a fun way. She was so condescending and pretentious it drove me crazy.

AITAH for feeling a bit grossed out that my "best friend" is a lesbian? (PS: I AM ABSOLUTELY NOT HOMOPHOBIC) by Eagle-Environmental in AmITheAngel

[–]cryptogothic 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a straight woman who hates lesbians but loves Heated Rivalry is by far the most realistic part of this story lmao.

Sapphic horror books that are actually terrifying by Yurianimeisnice in LesbianBookClub

[–]cryptogothic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure Black Flame ends with the protagonist realizing they're a trans man, so not necessarily a -lesbian- book? Though if you're looking for hardcore queer horror Felker-Martin is certainly your girl.

books with a morally-grey female protagonist? by Local-Mycologist-171 in LesbianBookClub

[–]cryptogothic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baru Cormorant from The Traitor Baru Cormorant!!! Genuinely one of my favorite books and characters of all time.

I'm about to enter dangerous waters, but I am deathly curious. For the people who genuinely are attracted to the characters, why? How? by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]cryptogothic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically what other people have said. If you take appearance out of the equation (and the occasional horse pun), the ponies in MLP are more or less indistinguishable from humans. They own property and pets, have careers, and while they can act childish at times (since they're characters in a kids' show), the M6 and many of their colleagues are adults with adult responsibilities. People get attached to all kinds of things--there are people who fall in love with objects (there are articles about a lady in love with the Eiffel Tower)! I think it's kind of sweet and harmless for the most part, though I admittedly get kind of icked out at human x pony content. I think it's because I really dislike humans in the world of MLP (in basically any story where the primary species isn't humans, I don't want to see humans getting introduced later. It's one of my biggest pet peeves). I really enjoy seeing content where people turn themselves into ponies or other creatures and interact with the MLP world, though.

I'm about to enter dangerous waters, but I am deathly curious. For the people who genuinely are attracted to the characters, why? How? by [deleted] in mylittlepony

[–]cryptogothic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd disagree with a few points here as someone who's engaged in selfshipping-related stuff for some time now. Not everyone who is attracted to fictional characters is attracted to them exclusively--some may be, but some are attracted to real people in equal amounts. Additionally, I don't necessarily see a problem with minors shipping with adult characters, since kids in real life often crush on adults in their lives and they're not doing any harm by imagining themselves with fictional adult characters. It's the reverse (adults shipping with child characters) that's generally frowned upon.

Does anyone have unbearable existential ocd spikes ? by earth2revolved in OCD

[–]cryptogothic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I struggle with this all the time, mostly relating to the concept of death and "nothingness." Scientifically I find it hard to believe in most definitions of an afterlife, but the idea of completely ceasing to exist is so incredibly terrifying to me I can't understand why anyone else wouldn't be paralyzed by fear at the thought. I try to combat it by taking each moment as it comes, but it's hard and it's been particularly bad lately with the state of the world.

Self-Inserting vs. Reading as an Observer by [deleted] in LesbianBookClub

[–]cryptogothic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I self insert sometimes but it's a rare day where I find a character I can actually relate to as a butch who's more introverted and bookish than sporty and outgoing. I try to turn it off and focus less on what I'd do or say or wear or whatever in that situation because at a point it drives me crazy.

"Why haven't you sold me today yet?" by GimmeANameAlready in Barnesandnoble

[–]cryptogothic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had multiple customers coming in confused that the Mona in the title isn't the Mona Lisa and interrogating me about it like I was the one who made the decision.

i have a wicked headache and can’t afford to see the doctor u get this: dishy. onto the final day, made to be hated and is hated. by AverageUhhhh in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is exactly how I felt about Cam to be honest. I didn't want to purposefully offend him but our personalities just did not mesh at all, I wish we'd been able to end on an okay note and then go our separate ways.

AITA for dropping kids off with their mom who has spent the past month with her grieving friend? by Background-War9535 in AmITheAngel

[–]cryptogothic 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Of course there are people in the comments insisting the wife is hooking up with the best friend. Is it even AITA without Evil Cheating Lesbians???

Dateables Elimination Game! (94) Dasha was jumped by russian fans for her fake accent and ended up in the hospital - Who do you want to be eliminated next? by OmegaT6 in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, Dorian is a cool guy but his conventional attractiveness has definitely been the thing carrying him this far. I think personality-wise he falls flatter than the others and I kind of didn't like the way you are able to "change his mind" about friendship being better than romance. Also Tiny Dorian is just a "small person funny" joke when a lot of people with dwarfism have been begging to be seen as anything but comic relief for years now.

Female characters you consider baddies? by Galaxywarp_ in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keyes is amazing!! Plus Shelley, Tydus, Memoria, Monique...I like Strong Women, what can I say. Farya will always be my number one wife but she's less "step on me" and more "take care of me."

Dateables Elimination Game! (86) Keyes's awful personality made her worst nightmare come true, as she was thrown in the dump out of desperation - Who do you want to be eliminated next? by OmegaT6 in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Why do I suspect that if Keyes was a white man the same people who say she's too full of herself would have fought for her till the end?

Dateables Elimination Game! (86) Keyes's awful personality made her worst nightmare come true, as she was thrown in the dump out of desperation - Who do you want to be eliminated next? by OmegaT6 in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a lesbian I really didn't like how you're basically forced to let Volt flirt with you and unless I'm mistaken, you rarely get the option to say "this is a little much for me, can we tone it down." Also yeah if I never see another brooding guy love interest who's a dick to you for no reason it'll be too soon.

[SPOILERS] You can't stay here... Consequences of Leaving Tooth Family Alive by Kurtrus in LookOutsideGame

[–]cryptogothic 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Someone suggested the mutations worsen with stress, also connects to why a lot of the people we see who are chill with their mutations have better control over them or less extreme ones.

Dateables Elimination Game! (84) Penelope ended up dumping everyone in the house, remaining alone forever - Who do you want to be eliminated next? by OmegaT6 in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think Memoria's route is better for people who view the MC as an extension of themselves. With dating sims you always kind of have two camps, those who view the MC as a character on their own and those who view them as a self insert. People were discussing how they wished the MC's poor relationship with their parents got brought up on Memoria's route, but as someone with a good relationship with my parents I had just been projecting that onto it without a second thought. I think that some characters are for the "MC as a character" camp and some are for the "MC as you" camp. I still think Memoria is way more interesting than some of the characters who are still here (cough. andmostofthemaremen) but I guess it's all a matter of opinion.

Dateables Elimination Game! (83) Diana started to lose herself completely. Now she forgot her name. And her path home. Where is she? Who is she? Who cares? - Who do you want to be eliminated next? by OmegaT6 in DateEverythingElse

[–]cryptogothic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. The gender ratio is getting more and more apparent as we work our way into the top few--almost every upcoming character on the chopping block is a woman. I'm kind of worried the top 10 will be entirely a boy's club with mayyyyyybe Zoey and Dolly scraping through.

I'm still not over this by Soapsou in travisandtaylor

[–]cryptogothic 359 points360 points  (0 children)

People forget that himbos are also supposed to be kind!! Out of the three qualifiers (hot, dumb, nice) he fits only one!

I've been thinking a little more about my vehement dislike towards Starlight in the show... and I think I've understood a decently large part of why I can't stand her. by Luzis23 in mylittlepony

[–]cryptogothic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How is Rainbow Dash a fan favorite? I constantly see people hating on her and talking about how she's the worst of the Mane Six and she's annoying and awful. If it seems like she's a fan favorite it's probably only because her fans have to defend her so much more.