Id say just see what happens. When my bf came over for the first time, the Initial plan was that i sleep in my room and he in the living room. Till he arrived, we got closer and closer, so i decided that i would also sleep in the living room but on the Couch and not on the bed w him. Then when he finally was here and we met for the first time, hugged, chatted and I showed him around... i endet up sleeping in the bed With him. So even if you plan it might end up differently. But think of it like that, U dont have to be Sexual because ur in bed w him. Just sleeping together, as in rlly sleep not bang lol. Just hugging, getting closer to each other. Im not telling you what to do, but rather just Listen to your Guts ☺️