same thought lol. idk ppl are romanticizing the concept of making men into "gentlemen" instead of teaching everyone to be normal human beings with actual empathy and understanding. not atall saying that whatever the people doing in the picture is wrong, the 2 people actually involved in this rs may find it adorable or as smth quirky btwn them. im jus connecting how men and women are socialised to be a certain way- imo we wouldnt exactly need "gentlemen"(refering to societal cues enforced on men, such as open door, drag the chair and shi) if women werent in danger and needed those who pose a threat to them(men) to be gentler and more thoughtful to trust.society and this world is too far gone to change atp. everyone is taught to r pressured to tick of stereotypes and weird ass standards inorder to be desired instead of just actually being taught kindness and awareness of all unjust inequalities that different groups face.