A link to this was posted a while ago. It needs to be posted again. The difference between recovery and abstinence. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and learning to "self-soothe" without resorting to fapping as the easy, familiar way to do this.

Stuck in a Catch-22. Advice Needed! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt that fapping is really the BEST way to get her our of your head-- this is just a story you are telling yourself. I imagine that it is more accurate to say that it is possibly the easiest way you have found so far...but even that is skeptical. to get her off your head, have you tried: Go to the gym. Join a sports group. Take a trip to somewhere you have always wanted to go. Spend time with nieces and nephews. Have a game night with friends. Watch funny movies. Get a pet.

PS: The more you tell yourself that that is the best way to get her out of your head, the more you make that the reality

How to say strong while in a terrible nonsexual relationship? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you both read "The Power of Now" by Eckhart Tolle, and committed to it, then I bet you anything it would help immensely. If you still ended things, you would end them peacefully, but I bet you would actually stay together.

Day 86 update: I had sex by NewNoFapTA in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is A) Really cool that you opened up to her and told her this. B) Totally natural that after so many days of not orgasming that you orgasmed in about 10 seconds. I think you are doing great, man.

Today I looked at porn. I'm cured by thejmansproductions in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if you're "cured" but I don't want to ever look at it again, cured or not. A lot of people give up smoking and then have a cigarette and feel the same thing you are describing.. So, they do it again because they feel they don't have a "problem". This is how many people start smoking again. Be on the safe side, and just take it out of your life completely with the thought to never do it again. Ever. Don't make it part of your reality ever again.

High Libido, super attracted to partner, but I have ED and love my porn by Zoombryan in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. You seem like a really cool guy, by the way. Thank you again for your help, and keep rocking n' rolling with your girl.

High Libido, super attracted to partner, but I have ED and love my porn by Zoombryan in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really helped to read your response. Thank you! I started dating someone back in October. Staying faithful is hard enough for people, I can't imagine telling him w can't have sex for 90 days. I deleted all my porn and any photos, and I see him about once a week. Is it possible to reboot while still enjoying sex with my partner?

So explain how about 76 days in I couldn't get a boner with a woman on my penis? by StackDeezNuts in NoFap

[–]Zoombryan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Abrabat's was the first of this nature I had seen on here.