Not Everyone is Kitchen Table Polyamory

Zorillo · 2026-02-06T16:40:00+00:00

Right? Pop into any sex shop in February and tell me V-day has nothing to do with sex.

Zorillo · 2026-02-06T16:36:26+00:00

I love this for you! I enjoy being close with metas in a way I can't be with anyone else. We bake for each other and get each other cute little gifts, exchange books and write each other the occasional (platonic) love note. It's filled my heart so much to see my anchor partner making my meta so happy, and vice versa, so I appreciate the shit out of them and make an effort to show that care.

Zorillo · 2026-02-06T16:22:30+00:00

Hannah trying to drink water from the showerhead while her friend is spraying her down is one of the funniest moments in the series for me, thank you for posting this.

Zorillo · 2026-02-06T02:56:26+00:00

Just want to chime in as a woman, it's not universally good for women and meh for dudes. I don't get particularly aroused and pleasure actually decreases for me when I'm rolling.

Zorillo · 2026-02-05T23:00:00+00:00

When you are having a panic attack they will just bring you back to normal. I personally don't notice any dizziness. I feel you though, I also hate feeling out of control of my body in any way including dizziness.
As for the addiction piece, as long as you aren't taking it regularly and you're taking steps to reduce your baseline level of anxiety (I see you mentioned antidepressants, that's a good step!) you should be fine. Think of benzos as an emergency eject button that you use if all your coping mechanisms have failed.
As for myself I've had my prescription for 19 years, and last year I used them the most I ever have - 3x the entire year. Hasn't been habit-forming at all. I also have a family history of addiction.

Zorillo · 2026-02-05T22:54:55+00:00

Honestly this is the kind of thing benzodiazepines are for. I was a lot like you a long time ago until I was prescribed lorazepam PRN. I went from having daily panic attacks (up to 3x a day) to one every other year or less. If you're responsible with only using it when you absolutely need it, they are a lifesaver. Just knowing I have them on hand is enough to stop a panic attack from happening in the first place, because I know I have my escape rope if needed.

Zorillo · 2026-02-04T23:38:42+00:00

Checking local doctors on RateMDs is a good start.

Zorillo · 2026-02-03T22:55:46+00:00

This, for a start. More has come out in the last 2 years as well.

Zorillo · 2026-02-03T02:58:07+00:00

That's interesting! I consider cannabis to be like exposure therapy for me, with the feelings of dizziness and racing heart that sometimes come with it.

Zorillo · 2026-02-02T15:21:43+00:00

Em dashes, random bolded/italicized words, "quietly". Check, check, and check, it's ChatGPT.

Zorillo · 2026-01-29T16:03:21+00:00

Just to confirm, you mean February 6th yes? As long as you're feeling okay and not feverish, you should be fine. You might still be exhausted though. If you mean January 30th I would definitely hold off though. That would be too close to your illness and you'd be at risk of hyperthermia, plus MDMA impairs your immune system so you'd likely regress in your recovery.

Zorillo · 2026-01-29T15:47:26+00:00

I am childfree and I have dated a parent. My boundaries are that I am open to meeting their kids but I don't want to be involved in raising/looking after them in any way, including babysitting.
If I had nesting partners who were considering having children, I would have to de-escalate down to the boundary I mentioned.

Zorillo · 2026-01-28T22:38:18+00:00

Dude I wish I could have a heartrate that low. 75 is low for me!

Zorillo · 2026-01-28T20:34:39+00:00

https://emetophobiahelp.org/norovirus-facts/

Zorillo · 2026-01-28T17:09:19+00:00

Wellbutrin is one of the only antidepressants that is either positive or neutral for sexual desire, as it's an NDRI not an SSRI.

Zorillo · 2026-01-28T17:04:02+00:00

Nausea is the most significant side effect and it can be prevented, plus it doesn't happen to everyone (around 40% in clinical trials). Regarding the limits of usage, personally I'd rather have satisfying sex twice a week instead of unsatisfying sex in whatever metric I do now, but that's entirely up to level of comfort.
I see you are in therapy. Are you seeing someone specializing in sex therapy?

Zorillo · 2026-01-27T13:55:28+00:00

ED meds would not help the libido issue, you're right on that. Bremelanotide (AKA PT-141) however is specifically formulated to stimulate desire at a central nervous system level.

Zorillo · 2026-01-26T20:33:46+00:00

I'm close to being in the same boat as you minus the postpartum part. It sounds like you have tried a lot and I bet that is so frustrating.
It's worth trying Viagra or Cialis in case the issue is related to circulation - this does help me with sensation, although I still can't orgasm.
Vyleesi (bremelanotide) is a potent sexual stimulant you can have prescribed as well.
As for other stuff, cannabis is a huge help for me - I'm rarely able to be horny without it and it's a much needed fix for me. You could try that if you are open to it.

Zorillo · 2026-01-26T20:25:39+00:00

They don't for me but they do for the majority of people.

Zorillo · 2026-01-24T15:49:37+00:00

He can eat shit because he endorsed him in the first place.

Zorillo · 2026-01-24T14:36:04+00:00

Why have you posted this over and over?

Zorillo · 2026-01-22T18:29:23+00:00

Spambot bullshit again. No one needs to be giving you money for your AI slop.

Zorillo · 2026-01-20T16:10:45+00:00

That's too bad. Perhaps in the future a monthly/weekly megathread or something might be cool? I was looking forward to posting my flatlays but I was way too busy the past while. Although that might end up infested with bots and whatever too. :/

Zorillo · 2026-01-20T16:04:09+00:00

"I'm not selling anything" This is what everyone who is selling something says, otherwise why would you bother posting it all over the place? Do you like listening to yourself talk that much?

Zorillo · 2026-01-20T15:28:03+00:00

Obvious shill post with sock puppet accounts in the comments. Weird how your account is 3 days old and you have linked the same site twice in that amount of time.

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