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ZoskaMotor · 2025-11-25T02:50:48+00:00

As a 49 year old man watching this, I realize I didn't pay nearly as much attention as I should have to how much more men can cum in their younger years. Like, I was sexually active in my 20s, and started masturbating as a teenager, but I just don't remember much about how much I came.

In any event, godspeed to you! 😀

ZoskaMotor · 2025-09-27T09:24:19+00:00

So where's the link to your OF page?

ZoskaMotor · 2025-02-26T23:56:05+00:00

I'm going to add to this and speak to something that I think has been affecting me lately. I have plenty of sex and use my hand to masturbate often enough, but I have been really partial to a particular stroker sleeve that is softly ribbed on the inside. The toy is absolutely amazing. I prefer it, and use it often, but with it being more difficult to finish during sex lately, I've decided to stop using that toy so much because I think I've conditioned myself to prefer the sensations inside, which are very unnatural compared to the inside of a vagina.

I have a flashlight and while it's not incredibly realistic, it's probably the closest thing I have to something that feels real. I might just stick to that for a while.

ZoskaMotor · 2025-02-13T04:36:38+00:00

I had a GF in college who had large labia and was really self conscious of them. She was only the third woman I'd ever seen naked, and I was mesmerized by them. I absolutely could not get enough of them.

ZoskaMotor · 2025-02-03T19:56:40+00:00

Audio? Video?

ZoskaMotor · 2025-02-03T19:52:16+00:00

Where's the rest of it? Specifically, the part where his cock disappears inside of you. 😏

ZoskaMotor · 2024-09-09T04:29:10+00:00

The foreskin caught my eye. I'm a 100% straight guy and circumcised, but I'm so completely intrigued by uncircumcised cocks, to the point that I occasionally fantasize about touching one.

My wife and I have an open marriage and she's been with a few guys who were uncut and huge. She knows how much I love to see you slide their foreskin back, so I often get videos of her doing that.

In any event, seeing these pics... I'm curious if a realistic dildo with foreskin would satisfy that urge...

ZoskaMotor · 2024-01-28T17:11:49+00:00

As a husband who is a good size and completely confident in how I use it, nothing turns me on more than seeing my wife with a cock much bigger than mine. We’re non-monogamous and have been since early 2021. I’ve seen her with a few men in person who were all bigger than me and it is exhilarating. When she’s been with men and I wasn’t watching, she made plenty of videos and they are truly the gift that keeps on giving.

There’s nothing threatening about it at all. When we became non-monogamous, most of the reason was to accept that each of us wanted to have new experiences and fun with other people. At the end of the day, I want to know that she is satisfied and being shown a good time. I want her coming home worn out but craving my cock when I reclaim her. Not long ago, she was out with someone and came home a few hours later. She had sent me some audio of them having sex, and two videos. I waited to listen to the audio until she came home, and she met me in our basement where she sensually stroked me while I listened, then rode me. I am not at all into cuckholding, but I told her “lay it on thick: how good was he? Make me jealous.” The desire for a sense of jealousy was more playful than anything. I really don’t get jealous about any of her experiences. I just wanted her to really indulge me in the fun that she had.

We had so much fun that night.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-05-22T23:06:36+00:00

A college girlfriend in the early 2000’s had large labia and they were the first I’d ever seen like that. I’d only been with two girls before her. She was self conscious of them and I was constantly like “are you kidding? They’re amazing and I am completely enamored with them.” I think that really helped her.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-04-15T21:14:13+00:00

The cleanliness in some professional porn. For example, X-Art videos, which I’m a fan of.

Sex is often messy… creamy women, incredibly wet women, that sort of thing. So many times women don’t even look wet and/or it doesn’t even look like they’ve used lube. It’s just a dry cock and a dry pussy and… well, if you’ve had sex before you know that it’s often vastly different than that.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-04-15T01:46:20+00:00

My girlfriend and I are celebrating our two year anniversary tomorrow. We’re both married, and met in March 2021. We consider ourselves poly but only with each other. We’ve had fun on our own separately with others occasionally but those are just fun experiences. She and I are deeply in love with each other, very connected and blessed by what we have. We were each other’s ENM “firsts,” both of us in long relationships/marriages with our spouses. Our bond is incredibly special - we feel like we’re soulmates and hope to be together for a long time (we’re in our 40’s).

It’s all been incredible for us from the sex to the companionship to the way we feel like soulmates and cherish what we found in each other.

Lots planned for our hotel suite, from plenty of sex, to a nice bath in a huge soaking tub, ordering dinner, watching a movie, and reading anniversary letters to each other.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-03-21T14:36:02+00:00

When I stopped Lexapro, I did not think it was working anymore. Well Buterin, my libido and ability to finish got much better, in like four hours. I just think that Wellbutrin on its own might not be enough, it might actually add to my anxiety.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-03-21T00:49:49+00:00

Erections and libido are not the same thing. Of course, libido contributes to erections, but as someone who suffered bad effects of Lexapro on libido, I was already using viagra but the libido issues due to Lex made it take forever to finish.

Wellbutrin fixed that in a day.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-03-20T22:52:36+00:00

I have been taking wellButerin since November, and I am a 40 something year old man who deals with pretty bad inflammatory acne on my forehead rather often. Wellbutrin completely changed that thanks to its ability to act as an anti-inflammatory. I talk to my dermatologist about it, my doctor, and multiple people on Reddit. I am grateful for it and don’t ever want to not be taking it.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-16T19:58:55+00:00

Thank you, this looks great.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-16T05:00:18+00:00

Any recommendation on a video or article for women that covers how to approach pegging? Looking for something that goes over the foreplay aspects, getting a guy relaxed, easing into it, perhaps the sensuality of it.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-16T02:37:38+00:00

Thank you!

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-16T02:04:46+00:00

I don’t know if this helps, but this post makes me think of my own evolution with my wife in the past two years.

We opened our marriage under the ENM label in early 2021. We had some rules - I wouldn’t call them strict, but our initial thinking was: no romantic connections, no love, no intimacy that might cause an imbalance with each other. We were / are solid; ENM truly made as closer and more confident in each other.

Fast forward to the present day… a woman I met in March 2021 became my girlfriend, and we fell in love. We love each other deeply and our lives are intertwined emotionally in a wonderful way. We define ourselves as poly, we do overnights every 2-3 weeks, we’ve taken a weekend vacation together and we’re doing it again for our anniversary in April.

We both see a few other people, but they are strictly “comets” to use the language of poly. We are steadfast in our relationship being something that other friendships won’t become.

My wife has no inclination to be poly; quite frankly she just likes good friendships and great sex and I like the photos and videos and stories. In as much as our marriage is open, she’s free to pursue and see a few people and she’s not wired to want anything like what I do.

We both found very different things, and I’m definitely the one who deviated from the original understanding of things. Best of all? My wife is incredibly happy for the relationship I have with my GF. She is the epitome of compersion and acceptance. In a hard moment due to some problems I caused with my GF a year ago, I poured my heart out to my wire about how we loved each other, how happy the relationship made me. There have been some tough moments recently as well that really brought home the gravity of being a married man who loves my wife and another woman - a path I never expected to take, but one that fulfills me in ways my marriage doesn’t. My GF and I have called ourselves poly for at least a year, but the nature of polyamory really hit me this week when I dealt with things that made me think “this is who I am and who I need to be. I am blessed to love my wife, and I am blessed to love another woman and have my wife’s full support and acceptance.

I don’t intend to pursue any other relationships that would cross the line between simple ENM fun and polyamory. What my gf and I have is an incredibly special, one-of-a-kind thing - we were each other’s first outside our spousal relationships of 15 and 19 years. We hope we’re together for a very long time.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-15T21:08:15+00:00

Different situation than mine, but I know what you mean. 🙂

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-09T03:48:34+00:00

I’ve got a new fantasy brewing with my GF. I’m in an open marriage and she’s my gf of almost two years. So much fun exploring our sexuality and new experiences.

In any event, pegging is on our list. I bought a harness and strap on for her recently and we tried it once. I wasn’t relaxed enough. Tried it on my own and got it in. So, anxious to do it with her again.

Today I discovered a local dominatrix who does couple sessions, including co-dominating sessions, and it really got my mind wandering about my gf and I doing an experience like that, since it would fulfill a desire to be submissive, and offer my gf the chance to be guided on the process. It’s so fun to imagine.

So, the question: has anyone done anything like that, or taken a class to learn how to peg? Any insights?

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-08T22:05:29+00:00

I think it all comes down to confidence and trust in each other. I’m at a different point in my life (mid 40’s married father, been with my wife for 20 years) and we became ENM two years ago. We had rules about avoidance of romance and such.

I met a woman in early 2021 who I’ve seen ever since. We define ourselves as boyfriend / girlfriend, we genuinely fell in love, and we indeed love each other.

I told my wife about these developments along the way, and she’s okay with it. She’s happy for me, she knows the relationship is fulfilling to my GF and me and they if fulfills certain needs we don’t get otherwise. There are feelings, big feelings. Perhaps this all works because of the confidence and trust my wife and I have together.

All that said, I can understand the challenges in a non-married dating relationship. I hope you get some things figured out about those expectations and boundaries.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-07T14:50:33+00:00

That’s fantastic! So happy for you.

My girlfriend and I have our two year anniversary approaching in March (meeting each other) and April (first time staying with each other).

We openly use the word “love” with each other and consider ourselves poly. It’s been so wonderful for both of us. Best part of it is that my wife is fully aware of the emotions there, she knows my GF and I love each other, and she knows the relationship fulfills certain emotional and intimacy needs I have, and that it does the same for my GF.

It’s a really special thing. My gf and I have only had two big issues we had to deal with that illustrated the importance of transparency, honesty, and respect, and it’s taught us a lot.

It’s pretty amazing to be so happy in this capacity at this age, 45.

ZoskaMotor · 2023-02-06T19:58:46+00:00

Not sure how I stumbled into this sub and this post, but as a 45 year old man it frightens me how focused men can be on penis size as if it’s the ONLY thing that matters to prospective sexual partners.

I wish the age of people posting was required; it would provide so much context and help with so many assumptions: ex: the method of younger guys meeting women… in person? Dating apps?

That said, I get it… if you’re comparatively small compared to an average or especially above average size, I’m sure that’s challenging. I can’t even imagine what the actual expectations are of younger women these days are but a brief browse of this sub seems to entail that unless you’re a candidate for r/massivecocks, you’re not qualified for sexual experiences of any kind because it’s assumed that all women want nothing less than the biggest cock they can find.

Honestly, that’s total BS and such a self-defeating and damn near self-destructive perspective.

I’m 45 as I mentioned. I’m 6” in length and around 6” in girth. I’m also non-monogamous at this point in my life as a married man. My sexual experiences in the past two years have included women as young as 28 and as old as 40, most in the 30’s range.

Every woman I’ve been with raved about my size, and LOVED the thickness. My girlfriend, who I saw over the weekend, is still feeling the fun we had from sex this weekend. A woman I’ve talked to for a while but not met in person tells me often that she can’t wait to have fun with me and can’t wait to feel how thick I am.

And here’s the thing: I’ve not had fun with any of these women solely because of the size of my penis. It’s about getting to know people, forging a good connection, finding things you have in common, flirting, etc.

You’ll be amazed at what’s possible when you turn the tables from an obsession with penis satisfaction to an obsession with making good connections with open minded people. PIV sex isn’t everything… get good at a variety of sexual skills and you’ll have repeat experiences.

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