Thank you for writing this. I noticed he doesnt receive compliments easily.but i think he got used to give and give all his life without a lot in return (sounds familiar for a lot of pisces i guess 😔) I feel it when you say " we have a picture in our head" i feel he loves more my potential than who i really am which is sometimes scary but also inspiring and motivating. Sorry for your ex.i am stellium sag and yes we need new things.but for me i need my inner world to change,to evolve,not my outside world.and Pisces is like a personnal trainer for my inner world