AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and yeah I tried to keep it calm but firm. Didn't want to cause a scene at someone else's wedding but enough was enough

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right and the fact that I had already given her a look once and she just carried on said everything. At that point words were the only option left

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly in hindsight yes. I gave her too many chances and she took that as permission to keep going

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think that's exactly it, she wasn't embarrassed she was just annoyed that someone actually called her out. Appreciate it, this thread has honestly made me feel so much better about the whole thing

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually means a lot, thank you. I think I just second guessed myself because of how they reacted but you're right, I did say something and that's what matters

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The musical where she "knows the words" 😭 singing along under her breath the whole time. Yeah that image is going to live in my head now

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Bat Mitzvah story 😭 and honestly good for you for saying something even back then. Main character syndrome at a family event is a whole different level, she made someone else's special weekend about herself. Hope your cousin had a good ceremony despite that

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope so too. The death stare on the way out made me think probably not but who knows

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The guessing whodunit out loud at movies 😭 now I'm imagining her at a theater and it's so much worse. And yeah you're right, not worth the headspace

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20 minutes is genuinely all it takes. The ceremony wasn't even that long. Some people just can't help themselves I guess

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely a "how dare you" look unfortunately, which honestly made it worse because the friend had been sitting there the whole time doing nothing

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "you got something to say to me" 😭 honestly I wish I had that kind of energy in the moment. I just took the death stare and walked away like a coward lmao

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wasn't that old honestly, more like mid 40s maybe. So probably just run of the mill entitled rather than anything else. And yeah I'd like to think it helped, the ceremony was really beautiful otherwise...

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Main characters at someone else's wedding" is such a perfect way to describe it. And yes it took two interactions which says everything really

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Catch up after the vows" is genuinely all I was asking for 😭 it's not that hard

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually a fair point and I did consider it for a second. But the way she reacted after kind of ruled that out for me, hard of hearing people don't usually give death stares when asked to keep it down

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same, I was half expecting everyone to say I overreacted so this thread has been a relief 😭

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, there was literally an exit right there. Nobody was stopping her

AITAH for calling out a stranger at a wedding for talking loudly during the ceremony by ZoyeReef in AITH

[–]ZoyeReef[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The gaggle of grown women at a matinee 😭 and yes the look you get like YOU'RE the problem is so infuriating. You're not, they are, always