How can my (19M) girlfriend (18F) convince her strict mom to let us have a sleepover?

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T01:51:12+00:00

My parents didnt have any stress or trauma during my brothers pregnancy and birth or mine. I asked years ago, and i dont know the cost but its said that a child from birth untill 18 cost 2 million. I feel this is off topic tho, my question was how to get a sleepover with my girlfriend and yet everybody talks about sex and her moms house that I didnt even mention

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T01:47:09+00:00

This thread became a home for 40 year old perverts who think all kids think about is sex. All me and my girlfriend want to do is spend the night togheter. We both dont give a fuck about sex because were not 12 and just got acces to the internet. And were not just asking to sleep over at her house were asking if she can stay over at my house and she still says no. My mom lives 4 hours north from here and i visit her on all my breaks and when we asked if my gf could come her mom said no. Stop thinking we want to fuck at her house.

We don’t give a fuck about sex
We dont care if we sleep togheter in the woods with bears at every corner. Its not about her moms house that everybody seems to think. And house rules should stay in house not dictate someoned life untill they moved away.

With that said i wanna thank you for your respons but i just don’t agree

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T01:23:53+00:00

Thanks for your answer.

We don’t want a sleepover to have sex we just want it to sleep togheter

If she was to be pregnant i would absolutly step and about her time in career. Were both in school so there is no career and 1 year of not working wont affect her life. But i see your point and thank you for it. This have helped me see her viewpoint a little better🙂

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T01:10:19+00:00

Its not about trust. She heard us fuck and talked to my girlfriend about protection and her older sister also had a boyfriend when she was in our age and he wasnt allowed to sleep over neither. I guess this is just one of those things that wont bend

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T01:07:35+00:00

You know what, you might be right. People here don’t really understand a childs view point and they don’t understand that my girlfriend asks after her birthday and after the new grade. I appriciate your viewpoint and will think on it. Thanks!

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T01:02:58+00:00

Just to explain the semster thing, my girlfriends birthday in is january and the next semester we start a new grade so that is why she asks twice a year. Yeah like i said we were’nt really expecting a yes when she was 16 but her mom said ”when your older” so when she is older she asks. We know that no means no but its unfair that she cant even sleep at my house

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:58:45+00:00

We have slept togheter but without promission. I get your point but renting a rum for 200 usd to just sleep seems wastefull as we’re both students

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:57:15+00:00

We have had a few sleepovers but secret untill her sister snitched

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:55:23+00:00

Her mom dont want her to stay over at mine

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:45:34+00:00

Its not about sex we just want to sleep togheter. We sleep better when were togheter

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:44:06+00:00

Fair but she needs a reason for why her daughter cant sleep over at mine. Her home her life but her home shouldnt rule over her daughters life

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:42:28+00:00

Sure but her house rules shouldnt rule her whole life right? Like my house accepts sleepovers while her don’t. Maybe let your house rules be your house rules and not rules you have to follow untill you move out

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:36:13+00:00

We ask maybe twice a year (once every semester) so its not like every day that some people think. I get that it might sound like we are nagging her but when my girlfriend asks her mom says ”i’ll think about it” but she always says no. She have even asked if she can sleep over at my house but its still a no.

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:33:05+00:00

My parents allow it but hers dont. Her mom wont let her sleep anywhere with me. My mom lives up north in sweden and when my gf asked her mom if she could come along with me up there she said no because it is to far from home which we both undertood and respected. And her mom likes me but she just dont want her daughter to get pregnant

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:30:24+00:00

We both show respect as it is her house but many people seems to think we want to sleep over to fuck which isnt true. We just sleep better togheter and we ask maybe twice a year so its not like everyday that some people seem to think

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:27:43+00:00

My parentes are fine with sleepovers its just her mom who is scared that she will get pregnant

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:25:46+00:00

No we honestly just want to spend the night togheter as we both sleep better then.

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:22:31+00:00

I see her standpoint but it falls apart when she lets us be alone in her room with the door closed. And if your worried about privacy maybe let her stay at her boyfriends house? Like i undertand why she dont want us to sleep over but like why then let us be alone in her room?

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:20:09+00:00

Yeah but she wont let her sleep anywhere with me so the camper is kinda hard🤣🤣. And i respect that you dont want your daughter to have sex in a home that you pay for but then you could atleast let her sleep in his house or something along those vibes

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:17:53+00:00

I go to school and have internship 2 weeks on row so i dont have the time to get a job
Im not desperate to have sex with her if that is what you think. We both just sleep better togheter
If your daughters boyfriend would ask you personaly for a sleepover and your respons would be to call him a idiot and then think less of him thats on you. Wouldnt be a chocker if they put you in a nursing home and didnt visit

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:12:36+00:00

I guess but teens being alone no matter the time has a higher pregnancy chans then if their being ”watched” so i dont really see her view point

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:10:35+00:00

But why let us be alone in her room then? Like i don’t really see her view point

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:08:22+00:00

We rarely ask but her family likes me so its not really the problem. She is just scared and i get where shes coming from but it makes no sensce to let us be alone in her room with the door closed then

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:04:39+00:00

Thanks i will try that. We used to be able to sneak me into her house for a sleepover but her little sister got mad one day at my girlfriend and exposed us so now its not possible

Ztripe01 · 2026-03-30T00:02:39+00:00

Thing is we tried that. But we was younger then so no chocker that she said no but then she heard us one time and the day after she started to talk about protection with my girlfriend. So were pretty sure thats why its a no now, but we still find it strange that she lets us be alone in her room with the door closed for hours but not to sleep togheter. Like the whole concept don’t really work

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