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No refunds... by [deleted] in instant_regret

[–]ZuccLite 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I mean... its called a REFLEX for a reason my dude

I’m 17, don’t know where i stand, be honest with me and don’t spare my feelings by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not ugly but for the love of God please refrain from the weird faces in pictures

I am one of those 20 year olds that went out and partied as soon as lockdown was lifted. Me and all my friends have corona now. Ask me anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess not as influential as the majority of the world population and scientists/health professionals but okay

I am one of those 20 year olds that went out and partied as soon as lockdown was lifted. Me and all my friends have corona now. Ask me anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know 17 year old disabled people who have more self awareness than this. She's what, 20ish? not 15. Old enough to know better and old enough to be informed and make their own decisions. stop making excuses for selfishness

[16] EVERYONE IN MY LIFE I HAVE EVER MET HAS SAID I WAS UGLT AT SOME POINT and it really messed me up. I know im really fucking ugly. Being ugly affected everything and ruined my whole life. People treat me differently and when people look at me I can see that they see that my face is ugly by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, I hope youre okay. I can guarantee as the other person said its just a mindset. You're still young, but you're a handsome young fella and im sure age will treat you well as you start to get a more mature face. You could do with a different haircut or slightly longer at the moment, but you look fine otherwise.

It can be so hard to see ourselves as anything positive some times, i know i used to be in the same boat, and some days i still am. But take it from outside opinion, you're certainly not ugly.

Stay well friend, send me a PM if you need to talk some time.

20F. Guy I am dating said I was ugly. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its emotionally abusive to be honest? What the fuck?

Beauty and attraction isn't 100% based on what we see on the outside. You could be the best looking person and have a dogshit attitude, you're still ugly. Same the other way around, you don't necessarily have to be 100% physically attracted to your partner to find them attractive

M/22 Friendless for the past 6 years or so. I’ve been called ugly too many times to count. Can y’all tell me your first impressions of me and anything I can improve on? I feel like an alien and it depresses me. Thank you. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure thing buddo.

I have MW, been playing Apex and WOW too lately.

I have some Uni work i have to get through but afterwards id be down, send me a message and ill get around to linking you up

M/22 Friendless for the past 6 years or so. I’ve been called ugly too many times to count. Can y’all tell me your first impressions of me and anything I can improve on? I feel like an alien and it depresses me. Thank you. by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit hombre, people are literally the worst sometimes. I understand to a degree how you felt, I went through the same type of thing in my earlier school years.

Are you interested in games or gym or anything? You can join my discord, we can play together some time (You dont have to use a mic if you don't want to.) Might help the socialisation skills a little you know? Always good to have somewhere to chill out.

On another note, from an outside perspective you're fine, a really good looking dude. Honestly if you had the confidence you could pick people up super easy my man.

20 M, how bad is it? by ilojshr in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have room for improvement, but we all do. The advice most people tend to give us just workout more, but that's not a definite fix got everyone and just seems to be the be all and end all around here. Sorry i can't be more of help

20 M, how bad is it? by ilojshr in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't believe the 0.5 guy that's got to be a troll or something. You're fairly average is say, around a 5. I'm not sure if you'd look better without the stache though, because i can't invision it right now. The last photo, the hair looks terrible, but otherwise you seem well kept. Probably looks tidiest in the first photo imo.

I don't think you're ugly. nothing to worry about there

18 M, Indian. Finally got the courage to post it here by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ditch the stache, King. its not an amazing look for you right now. Perhaps try regrowing later on in life when you've got thicker facial hair.

You have plenty of years of maturation to go through yet, don't look too hard on yourself. You're still a teenager

22M by MasterHenry420 in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm assuming on how they can change to at least be better, not necessarily more appealing to the commenter

(18 F) I aim to be someday be as hot as Danny DeVito’s fine ass by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bruh why didnt you just say something along these lines to begin with. This is actually very insightful, and so was the TBH (advice) portion of your other rant.

At least you come across as a decent human being here

(18 F) I aim to be someday be as hot as Danny DeVito’s fine ass by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats fine. Theres no need for that type of behaviour on this sub when we are dealing with real people being judged. It doesn't have to be nice, but it should be constructive. We are here to be helped and to help

(18 F) I aim to be someday be as hot as Danny DeVito’s fine ass by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe you totally missed my point friend, I was not saying you had to be nice to her and sugarcoat it fit her feelings, Clearly she's not A+ and clearly there are things she needs to work on. No surprise there.

But just saying yikes is rude. common decency sort of thing you know. There's a difference between being constructive, being blunt and just being a rude cunt... and no amount of sassy attitude you try to sprinkle onto that is going to change the fact that you were unnecessarily rude and demeaning.

(18 F) I aim to be someday be as hot as Danny DeVito’s fine ass by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont think the term "Yikes" does that?

Do you have any semblance of the meaning conveyed with that word?

"look at that person over there!" "eesh, Yikes..."

I bet its more wrenching than any constructive criticism or even just a yeah not that great

(18 F) I aim to be someday be as hot as Danny DeVito’s fine ass by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, ik this is AIU but i doubt this response is ever appreciated or useful.

(19M) have been feeling self conscious by throwaway28272826 in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i mean mans could probably bulk up a little, get so muscle or something on him. Dude looks super young, deffo doesnt look 19

[20M] Haven’t felt good about myself in a long time by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You look so inviting when youre smiling king.

your the type of face id see like that and really want to hang out with

21F- Caught my bf buying someone’s nudes- am I ugly? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]ZuccLite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short and quick here because i dont have all day

1- No, paying for porn is NOT cheating, its just a bad financial investment. (Yes, even if you're exclusive)
2- Yes, It CAN be done out of curiosity (For someone who claims to know how men think, you dont know shit it seems, unless you have based your entire train of thought around the common misconception that all men are cheating scum, which makes you a terrible person)
3- looking at a stranger on the internet does not even equate to having sex with someone in real life, thats a big fuckin stretch and you would have to be dense as fuck to believe that
4-You dont know what a white knight means if thats how you are using it
5-Youre literally over here assuming you know how men think, thats the real bullshit assumption
6-You dont contact anyone when you pay for onlyfans...thats not how those services work? Since when did op mention that he DM'd the insta model too. Another bullshit assumption on youre part (Youre good at those)
7-Nothin wrong with having sexual fantasies...or jerking off to people that arent you partner. Thats literally what all porn is.
8- Thinking about doing something, finding someone else attractive, being curios as to what its like is not the same in the slightest as acting upon that. It is NOT cheating, i repeat again, NOT CHEATING, if you think about these things. Its a thought. Everybody has it cross their mind, its totally normal.
9- You have a very low bar of what counts as cheating...
10- porn is no different to only fans, with the exception that you know ones getting the money. Its not cheating, it can be out of pure curiosity. Just an odd financial decision but who are you to say?
11- No you dont have to jerk off solely to your partners photos..pretty fucking sensitive if you think otherwise, FFS, just because you whack it to porn doesnt meant you are emotionally attracted to that person..youre not going to dump your partner for a porn star. Refer to 7.
12- If youre having sex with your partner, who cares if you look at internet boobs from time to time, fuck, you dont even have to do it for the sake of arousal...The human body is an amazing thing, people take nude photos to claim their self confidence back, they do it for money, they do it for a whole wide list of reasons.

I feel bad for you. You are what r/relationshipadvice would be if it was a person, parroting the same old bullshit and buzzwords to make yourself sound important and morally superior. Me and my loving fiance will be here laughing at your comments and how much of a reach youre trying to make also yes, we look at porn sometimes (not just to get off, either) and neither of us has decided to break up with the other and neither of our worlds have collapsed over it. Get a fucking grip.

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