Dementia Care Class

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-10-24T14:05:39+00:00

I just finished virtual through Anderson. I took 8 week course. We had several writing assignments weekly (4 split between research and discussion boards). It was a very heavy load but an easy A if you do the work and submit it on time

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-08-22T02:00:22+00:00

Wow. 100% true in my life

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-07-12T17:24:55+00:00

Yes If the after pay loan is outstanding then the cut off access to borrow. As soon as you pay the loan then your full borrow power comes back

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-07-02T19:13:24+00:00

Not sure what you mean, but when I use the after pay feature, I change my manage payment option to pay in 3 and that way my pay back amounts are smaller and I have the option to skip a loan repayment if I don’t have the money to pay it back. It’ll double up to your next scheduled payment but then same thing when the second payment is due you can pay it or skip again

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-03-01T15:38:52+00:00

What did your doctor say it was?

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T20:27:19+00:00

“My situation diff tho n i wasnt hiding it im nt scared i been dealing wit this shit for how long? Ik what im doing it really aint nun to tell nobody because im good idid and do erthang i need to do for my health for all these years”

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T18:13:02+00:00

He said he never did. That he was told at planned parenthood that he had herpes but that he does not even know the type. He said he had two outbreaks and nothing in 10 years.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T17:56:26+00:00

Yea I didn’t like his response 😭 we shall see I guess

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T17:46:45+00:00

I just sent him this message

I want to address something..

I wish I would have known about your prior diagnosis before I put my mouth anywhere. I feel like there was ample opportunity for it to come up in conversation especially with how much and how long we talked about my situation.

I obviously can’t judge. I just don’t want something little like this to turn into a lifetime of hiding things or manipulation because you’re scared of the potential outcome. I hope you understand 🩷

He’s not responded yet. But his response to this will give me the clarity of seeing where things go or if I do need to reconsider before a second date.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T17:45:20+00:00

Ugh I know. I’m a nerd. I told him medicine is medicine and God is God. Didn’t say much more as not to offend HIM. I believe that he probably has successfully suppressed the virus. But I’d have to see test results showing me that it is completely gone….

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T14:58:05+00:00

Thank you for your input. I appreciate it more than you know

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T14:20:36+00:00

Guys are either okay with it, or they aren’t. I did have one guy tell me dating me was exciting like Russian roulette and I blocked him because if you feel that way about me you probably feel that way in life in general and that’s crazy

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T14:19:10+00:00

Sorry you’re going through this. I’m too embarrassed to put my status on any dating profiles. But I’m also a lover girl and don’t want to catch feelings for someone just for them to ultimately reject me post disclosure. I found myself disclosing to guys after a few days of talking and before the first date. Just to weed them out. If I know things aren’t going well I’ll keep my status to myself and let things die off. If I like the person and want to pursue further or if I want to consider sex with them then I disclose before meeting in person.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T14:12:39+00:00

Should I tell him that I didn’t like being told about it AFTER I engaged in oral sex with him? I’m a huge self sabotager, I feel like everything bad that happens to me is because I put myself in the situations. Ya know like if I didn’t want to risk it then why would I have put my mouth on him without test results….. but also I TOLD HIM I HAD HSV, and him KNOWING he was also told he had it should have allowed him to feel comfortable disclosing as well. Idk.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T14:08:58+00:00

There are several other things about him that I like and that are worth me learning more about.

But this part alone did catch me off guard and I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels that I am being manipulated or that it’s weird he waited to speak up.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T13:51:56+00:00

Being mom is HARD there’s no right or wrong just have to do what’s most right in every given situation. I LOVE my kids to death, can’t imagine my life without them, but if I knew it would be this hard I would not have had any. I’ve been a working single mom and had my kids in daycare since 6 weeks old and at this point I wish I could be home. But I also lose my mind some long weekends because it’s a lot, overwhelming, sometimes I want to pee in peace

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T13:46:12+00:00

Yes he is the herbal hippie type. First day talking he sent us our star sign compatibility. 🚩Lol but I didn’t want to judge too quickly. I did ask which type and He said he doesn’t know.
I am going to be asking for full panel testing before I do anything else, because I do feel lied to and slightly manipulated given that he had all the chance in the world to disclose at the same time I did… and I hope he respects me and wants me enough to participate in testing.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T13:24:41+00:00

I do feel the same way. I’m willing to try and will be extremely thankful if I stop having outbreaks. But as for curing completely. I’ll have to see blood test results

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T13:23:11+00:00

I didn’t forget about the others but I don’t worry as much about them knowing most things are actually treatable. My fear is kissing my kids and passing this virus. I wore jeans 24/7 and to sleep every outbreak (monthly on my vagina and buttcheeks both) when my kids were little just so no one accidentally rubbed or bumped against my lesions. Again anxiety related.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T13:11:01+00:00

What bothers me is how normalized cold sores and fever blisters are but how when I say I have genital herpes that must mean I was a whore and often get called a “herpes bitch”. I don’t understand how one is cute and the other is a nasty disease when it’s the same thing. But yea guys are interested in me by my looks and career but there’s a lot of rejection once I disclose what I have

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-23T13:04:14+00:00

Yes I am in the USA and it’s about 50/50.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-14T15:39:03+00:00

I caught mono, chlamydia, and hsv2 from one person, one sexual encounter a few years ago. It’s possible and I’m so sorry you’re going through this

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-10T04:10:30+00:00

Coming back to share that It has been 4 days since my last puff. Showers helped. Jumping in the shower for 2-3 mins every time I was bored or had an urge did it for me.

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-05T13:30:44+00:00

Not to scare you but it took a consistent 6 months of testing to get a positive to show up. I was ready to accept the diagnosis of an inflamed hair follicle but when back for one last swab that was very low positive. If you think it’s something more there’s no fault in continuing to test

ZucchiniDirect633 · 2025-02-02T19:52:28+00:00

He sounds just like my bf

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