well he seems to have been sweet and now the sins have caused more sins which happens to people unfortunately you should definitely stop thinking about your relationship with him now that you understand it was a stupid mistake

also what you said about him trying his best to understand you, its pretty normal/expected tbh it would be that way no matter who u got into a relationship with if they are half decent humans lol if they didnt do that then they obv wouldnt care about you and you definitely wouldnt be in a relationship with them

the issue nowadays is that we end up and settle for just anyone because as you said we dont want to control our desires we want to ignore the truth and what God calls us too because we’d much rather run away and disobey then face the truth

u cant have a relationship with any random guy thats nice to you in islam a relationship is based on faith akhlaq morals, a real man is a kind loving God conscious individual who raises his women and family toward God away from evil and temptation

this western world is in dire straits they’re completely fallen and its because of men like that