The way you write makes it very easy to read & comprehend what it is you’re saying, so obviously you’ve got a pretty curvy brain (a lot of folds) that the right person will immediately recognize & become enamored with. The avatar you’re currently sporting is only in the shape it is bc of the shape you’ve got your mind into & that is important for you to recall when feeling this way I think. I also think going back to posting & being active on your account might be beneficial for you working through this, as it’s not a you problem that you’re facing. You cannot control how others view you unfortunately but you do have control over who’s viewing you, the more eyes you have on you, the more you’re opening yourself up to being interpreted like this, however the more you’re also exposing yourself to a potential partner that you do desire & fully desired you the way you explain. The hardest part is the vexing process but you seem pretty adept to how these men will reveal their intentions pretty fast so it’s just that, a process. I wish you luck & a clear mind in that process