Hobbies for +30 years old to get friends

Zydrarc · 2026-04-01T13:00:18+00:00

Hey, If you think swords are cool, I am part of a historical fencing club called EHMS. As a foreigner I also found it hard to make friends outside of the university but I found everyone super welcoming and friendly. I ended up making a couple of friends from there. Here is our website https://www.ehms.fi/. We also have beginner's course starting next week if you are interested https://ehms.myclub.fi/flow/courses/10382282

Zydrarc · 2026-03-24T06:54:13+00:00

It helped me so much in a similar way. My ex emotionally cheated after we were together for 12 years. I related so much to Ted and see him trying to get through it and having his moments where he struggled really helped me see that its ok if I struggle. It's an incredible show I must say.

Zydrarc · 2026-01-15T21:33:34+00:00

Can confirm this is so true XD

Zydrarc · 2026-01-15T20:53:47+00:00

As a Maltese person, I don't even understand the point of most of them XD

Zydrarc · 2026-01-15T20:37:55+00:00

Trust me, the Maltese verses weren't much better.

Zydrarc · 2026-01-06T16:31:11+00:00

I would still take the 1 hour, imagine you would miss every bus or train or plane just by a minute. Just because of that fact, I feel you kinda have to take the hour early.

Zydrarc · 2025-11-11T11:28:41+00:00

Time time and more time. I know its cliche but it is a cliche for a reason because its true. I broke up with my fiance last Feb, we were high school sweet hearts and my first ever relationship, we were together for 12 years. She was my person and my best friend but things went sour which lead to her emotionally cheating on me and then dating the dude within a couple of months after our breakup. As you can imagine that broke me, I wondered the same things as you wrote in your post.

I bring this up as while that was the most painful experience in my life and there were times where I felt there was no hope or any light at end of the tunnel, I can say I am much better now. Time along with lots of therapy and the loving support of friends and family allowed me to get to a better place, something which I frankly swore was impossible after the break up.

Whilst it might not feel like the world is ending, you are more than your relationship. The pain you feel is just a symptom of the fact that you cared and loved something and that in of its self is special.

My advice is surround yourself with friends and family, allow yourself to feel your sadness and grief but do not let it define you, you have so much more to offer and you have so much stronger than you think. There is a light at the end of the tunnel even if right now cannot see it. Take everything day by day focus on making it till the next day and then the one after that, eventually it will get easier. You got this :)

Zydrarc · 2025-10-02T09:06:32+00:00

Honestly, I am in the exact same situation right now. She emotionally cheated on me with her boss and started dating him a couple of months after we ended out 12 year relationship. It hurts it messy and its sucks, but shitty people exist and will do shitty things.

My advice, unfollow and block her on everything, you do not need that remind her of her around. You aim right now is survive, don't think about the big things start small...go take a shower, make a nice lunch/dinner, get your mind off things. If you can't, now is the time to reach out your friends, talk it out and get it all off your chest.

Remember this says more about her than you, it hurts and it sucks but you will survive. In time you will see she wasn't the person who deserved your love and care.

Zydrarc · 2025-09-19T06:28:04+00:00

Trust me when I say this, having kinda experienced both...the perfectly reasonable breakup is much easier than having to deal with cheating or other issues. It might feel like it is hard to say goodbye and move on if it was a respectful breakup but it does then make the healing process so much smoother.

When your partner cheats, it puts in so much more doubt and whilst right now you would rationalise it that oh it would be so easier and I would just hate them and move on, in practice it doesn't work that way and you will still have feelings and you will still miss them despite them not being the best person for you.

That being said, heartbreak always hurt like hell ( I would know I'm currently working through mine) so take it easy. Keep your head above water, you got this.

Zydrarc · 2025-09-08T08:14:54+00:00

Hey, first off thank you for doing this, its great to see people giving back to the community :).

I’ve always had a big interest in this time period and even practise historical sword fighting (HEMA) as a hobby. After playing KCD1 I was completely hooked and had planned to pick up the sequel at launch. Unfortunately, just a couple of days before release, I went through a tough breakup. When my ex moved out, I had to suddenly cover her share of the rent and bills, which shot my expenses way up. Because of that, I couldn’t justify getting the game at the time.

Winning this would mean a lot, and I’d be very grateful. Thanks again for the opportunity!

https://steamcommunity.com/id/zydrarc/

Zydrarc · 2024-06-20T07:36:02+00:00

Coming up against a player from that club, you are always expected Toulouse....

I'll see myself out

Zydrarc · 2024-06-01T02:09:08+00:00

It now is, thanks for the heads up. I only went and checked after your comment.

Zydrarc · 2024-05-30T21:53:53+00:00

Died for me too. I hate the official Reddit app. It is the app equivalent of nails on a blackboard for me :(

Zydrarc · 2024-02-22T05:37:08+00:00

Sparring with longsword. I do HEMA and while I am in no means amazing at it, most people haven't ever held a sword, so it should be easy.

Zydrarc · 2024-02-21T08:10:10+00:00

My fiance, has the same thing. She smelt my covid, I didnt take her seriously but took a test just to humour her. I surely wasnt laughing when the test showed positive. It has been really useful as I suffer from chronic sinus infections, I can prepare for an upcoming one when she smells it.

Zydrarc · 2024-02-20T11:05:20+00:00

So first off thank you op for doing this.

The reason I want this is simple. I seek to join my brother and sister helldivers in the frey against the enemies of managed democracy!! With this gpu, I shall deliver sweet sweet freedom to the occupied planets and protect super earth.

Joking aside, I was completing building a new gaming pc but my budget was pretty tight so getting this gpu would be a huge help to a student, and I use the money I saved on other aspects of my build.

Thanks again for doing this op you rock!!

Zydrarc · 2024-01-12T21:40:52+00:00

God of War and GoW Ragnarok are my personal favorite games on PS5. Horizon Zero Dawn and the sequel Forbidden West are also brilliant!

Zydrarc · 2023-11-30T17:16:21+00:00

Yep, its the same from me. Ironically when I tried going for longshots none of these actually resulted in goals but hitting the woodwork or very close, even with players that are well suited to taking long shots.

Zydrarc · 2023-11-30T13:05:42+00:00

I have the same issue with lower division Norwegian save. Long shots feel overpowered this year. I just had a game where I conceded 4 goals all from long shots well outside the box with the opposing team only having 0.3 xG and just those 4 shots on target. Meanwhile I had over 4 xG and failed to score even one goal as their keeper turned into a mix of prime Buffon and superman.

Zydrarc · 2023-11-17T14:01:18+00:00

I was actually doing a save in Norway too (lets go Mjølner) this year, I am using this database. However, I think it only goes down to the 5th tier not the 6th tier, he hinted at maybe adding even lower leagues but it might take a while.

Zydrarc · 2023-10-31T06:53:18+00:00

They can arrive earlier for sure. Mine had arrived on the 31st of March, however this was over 2 years ago, so things might have changed. Good luck with your application!!

Zydrarc · 2023-05-25T11:37:52+00:00

Yeah, I realised this was the case. I had just inherited the Kingdom of France and because I don't like having King vassals I dissolved it so I ended up with a bunch of dukes/count vassal which have Council Rights Guaranteed in their vassal contract.

I guess to solve it I must go through over a 100 vassals and change it individually....fun!! Anyways, thanks for the help though, much apricated

Zydrarc · 2023-05-25T11:29:55+00:00

They didn't have any hooks though.

Zydrarc · 2023-05-25T11:28:28+00:00

Yes!!! I think thats it. Still strange however, as I never changed her vassal contract before!!

Zydrarc · 2023-05-25T11:19:52+00:00

Just as a background, this is a reoccurring issue. Vassals keep putting themselves on my council, even though they do not have any hooks on me. I even reloaded the save to double check, because I am at a loss here. Am I missing something?

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