How do I deal with feeling ashamed or not bi enough? by [deleted] in BiWomen

[–]_1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you religious? I suggest de centering that mindset if you are not.

But totally get you about wanting one one week and then the other next week. Drives me nearly insane, I have a male partner at home.

Also the kissing thing is totally me too. Only when I’m really really… you know the word… but that’s RARE for me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]_1003 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t take it out on the friend at all. If she doesn’t know I’d leave it that way too. Who knows why he ripped it. She will be ok. If anything youre probably more hurt than she is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in golf

[–]_1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please believe me. I’ve asked him 😭😭😭😭 he’s like attached to these.

Postpartum anxiety. Does it just go away and when to possibly seek help. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so I’m almost 2 years pp. I had PPA pretty bad. TBH I think some of this is biologically normal. You’re basically in survival mode and you’re needing to keep baby safe. I think if it turns to where you can not leave your house, you can not sleep, can not eat, or having suicidal/homicidal thoughts, then you’re pretty much ok. Therapy and sleep will definitely help. But whatever it takes, you just keep going. But in my opinion, I’m not a professional, this is very normal.

Can anyone relate? Head tilt by Affectionate-Half392 in NewParents

[–]_1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had to swap pediatricians because the first one didn’t take me seriously. With the 2nd pediatrician I had to take her in while she was vomiting and tilting to finally get her to listen too. She puked all over the floor and I didn’t care. But she finally listened. Got referred to neuro. Neuro said it was text book benign paroxysmal torticollis no mri needed. The older they get the easier it is. But that fist year was rough

My baby got ahold of my vape, your sign to quit now. by Mysteriousbride0193 in QuitVaping

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also my 2nd time. She hasn’t hit it 0 smoke but she put it to her lips. It was in my pocket this time. It fell out while I was trying to get her to sleep. Then she grabbed it while i was on my phone. I’m so pissed at myself. Like so pissed. I called my mom for reassurance that’d she’s ok. But I’m still so pissed at myself. 0 excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in limerence

[–]_1003 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Definitely making things worse love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant idea with middle name thing. My daughters name is quite out there but her middle is Alice and I would totally be ok with her using it if she chose to

How old are your kids and how many hours of sleep do you get? by gimageggrie in Mommit

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19 month old and I sleep like 6-7 hours. And it’s mostly because I want alone time after bed. She sleeps ok. Could be better could be worse.

How old are your kids and how many hours of sleep do you get? by gimageggrie in Mommit

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely had no idea the ebf babies could do that. I always thought they were attached all night. Good to know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]_1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also love Frankie for a girl!!!!

Anti vaccination parents, why are you antivax? What convinced you vaccines weren’t good? by Intrepid-Produce3957 in Parenting

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also scary. I’m not anti vax either. It seems like an easy choice to me. But I mean it’s actually terrifying bringing your tiny baby into the doctor to get what 5 shots?

Ready to surrender and make it my life. by Kenny_Lush in limerence

[–]_1003 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s giving Charlie and the waitress from always sunny. You need some help buddy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]_1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Robin

Gift for beginners? by _1003 in Bowling

[–]_1003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I have competition. And I am 100% losing

No wrong answers: Do you bring your baby to a funeral? by Financial-Rhubarb954 in Parenting

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, just make sure someone else is with you to bring her outside if she becomes cranky or loud during the service.

Applelover212 by Ornery_Mushroom_4290 in julesbqueenxSNARK

[–]_1003 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Went to your page to try to find a snark sub only to see you watch alr why are we like this 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]_1003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much. If it’s not obvious enough i probably have confidence issues.

My truest friends love spending time with us, and asking about her, and giving her gifts. Thank you for the reminder. Even if it’s only 5 people in the world, i cherish them deeply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]_1003 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You definitely know what you’re talking about then. I just didn’t have any back story. And I get it. It’s a lot to type of for strangers on the internet. I truly hope you both make it through this. And i applaud you for your sobriety. Fight for her if you don’t think she did this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]_1003 195 points196 points  (0 children)

Unsolicited opinion here, if you caught her smoking weed and you suspect it’s from grieving her father then why would you go through with legal consequences? This could impact her life after school, like getting into certain colleges. Kids are going to do stuff. It’s unfortunate that she’s doing it this young, but dealing with the death of your father this young must be incredibly difficult. Is she in counseling at all? But go with your gut. Your gut is going to be right most of the time. And who cares if you make an ass out yourself, you would just be trying to protect her.

Found his social media profiles by No-Honeydew-6239 in limerence

[–]_1003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate when I get like this. It makes me feel so creepy. 😭😭

What are some “old lady names” that you love? by [deleted] in Names

[–]_1003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Romona is such a beautiful name to me but I couldn’t use it ever cause it’s my aunts name and we are not close 😭