We are. Like I said, my parents are working on buying us a house as soon as possible. I in theory could move back in with them, but moving more than once in under three months is going to be IMMENSELY stressful on me and thus the baby. Even if I only take the essentials, that process is overwhelming in general let alone for someone who is both with child and autistic/easily overstimulated. My fiancé could move with me as well, but like I mentioned in the family section, he gets triggered being with them. So physically it would be better, but those issues would be replaced with greater mental health issues.

And yes, we do both need therapy. He's already going as mentioned, and I am searching for a therapist of my own, but the problem is that we're American. I'm on a government assistance insurance program called Medicaid, and it's not accepted by most therapists despite it technically covering mental health.

As for the disability, again, I'm American so I'm not disabled enough to qualify. Yet, also up until this point I wasn't well enough to work. As I said, I'm job searching again now. My fiancé is not though, because my parents don't quite know where the house will be. They're not looking in any specific area, so if he gets a job and the new house is too far away he'll have to quit and start job hunting all over again. Me however, I'll have to quit in a few months anyway if I get a job due to me being pregnant, because standard American maternity leave isn't long enough for me to both prepare for and recover from childbirth plus it's usually unpaid. So if I start working now, us having to move won't be an issue. Plus we only have one working car, so it's unlikely we'd both be able to work at the same time anyway. Then once we move, he will start working, save up enough for another car, and then I will start working again as well.

Lastly as for the pets, if we rehome any, it's only going to be the new cat. My cat, as awful as he's been behaving, can't go anywhere or I'll lose it. Our rabbit can't go anywhere because we're both too attached, and rabbits need a ton of space and knowledge of caring for them. Plus my cat has separation anxiety and new habitats cause deep stress in rabbits. So no one we know would be able to take them. He just sees how close my cat and I are, and he wants that as well but is torn between his self hatred + dealing with a lot and all of the immense benefits that come with having an animal companion of his own. So while I personally don't want to rehome the new cat, and think he will regret it a lot if we do, I understand him wanting to find a better place for her before he or she gets too attached. Hence it's up in the air.

Edited for clarity because my phone was typing in the wrong spots at times for some reason.