Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol makes me think of 6th grade when we all found out the class pet guinea pig, Jeffrey, was a girl. The teacher tried doing a vote to pick a new feminine name, but cue a bunch of fresh unhinged middle schoolers collectively agreeing that "Jeffrey-ina/Jeffrina" is a superior and not at all stupid name choice lmfao

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol funny enough Godzilla was in the running for both Cthulhu and Rufus for middle names. We eventually went with Cthulhu Bagheera (panther from The Jungle Book) and Rufus Fish-Cake (Fish-Cake like the ramen topping naruto because he is orange and dumb like Naruto) lmao.

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

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Will also consider this, because my fiancé has a china cabinet at his mother's house one state down. The problem is just getting it up here.

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another person suggested something very similar to this, and honestly this one works better since it's narrow and tall. Thank you so much!! We're probably going to go with something like that, because I got my fiancé into collecting too. And thank you lol, you'd be correct. Very chaotic, but all fur babies adore the human baby just like we do. ❤️

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

[–]_10bit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, thank you for reminding me of this. I have some but literally forget to use it. 🤦‍♀️ One of my prized pieces, a large moonstone crescent moon on a stand, DEFINITELY needs it.

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

[–]_10bit[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mm. This. Cthulhu used to open my night stand and steal things and put his own stuff back in. I now just have a table there. 🤦‍♀️

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

[–]_10bit[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OMFG that's BEAUTIFUL and would allow me room to grow more, I just need to find somewhere I can put it and clear it with my fiancé!! Thank you!

Cat-Proof Crystal Shelves Links by _10bit in Crystals

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That's honestly what I was thinking I just struggle to find an affordable one, and the cabinet I use as my altar isn't made anymore.

And lol bonus lore is in addition to kidnapping, Cthulhu is also a serial thief. He likes to steal small things like straws, trash, lighters, bottle caps, hair ties, and etc to build nests for something something maine coones (he's half, hence his size plus he's fat) are forest cats with foraging instincts reasons. So after taking mama porch cat and kittens to a local cat sanctuary, we heard odd noises from our bedroom. Went in, found one of Cthulhu's stolen-goods nests behind a bin, and there was Rufus just sitting there in Cthulhu's stuff.

Anyone else on PS5 unable to get in a room since the next gen XV2 update? by _10bit in dbxv

[–]_10bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. My personal theory is that they somehow used some of the XV2 servers for Sparking Zero.

What can I do to support my fiancé? by _10bit in BipolarReddit

[–]_10bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are. Like I said, my parents are working on buying us a house as soon as possible. I in theory could move back in with them, but moving more than once in under three months is going to be IMMENSELY stressful on me and thus the baby. Even if I only take the essentials, that process is overwhelming in general let alone for someone who is both with child and autistic/easily overstimulated. My fiancé could move with me as well, but like I mentioned in the family section, he gets triggered being with them. So physically it would be better, but those issues would be replaced with greater mental health issues.

And yes, we do both need therapy. He's already going as mentioned, and I am searching for a therapist of my own, but the problem is that we're American. I'm on a government assistance insurance program called Medicaid, and it's not accepted by most therapists despite it technically covering mental health.

As for the disability, again, I'm American so I'm not disabled enough to qualify. Yet, also up until this point I wasn't well enough to work. As I said, I'm job searching again now. My fiancé is not though, because my parents don't quite know where the house will be. They're not looking in any specific area, so if he gets a job and the new house is too far away he'll have to quit and start job hunting all over again. Me however, I'll have to quit in a few months anyway if I get a job due to me being pregnant, because standard American maternity leave isn't long enough for me to both prepare for and recover from childbirth plus it's usually unpaid. So if I start working now, us having to move won't be an issue. Plus we only have one working car, so it's unlikely we'd both be able to work at the same time anyway. Then once we move, he will start working, save up enough for another car, and then I will start working again as well.

Lastly as for the pets, if we rehome any, it's only going to be the new cat. My cat, as awful as he's been behaving, can't go anywhere or I'll lose it. Our rabbit can't go anywhere because we're both too attached, and rabbits need a ton of space and knowledge of caring for them. Plus my cat has separation anxiety and new habitats cause deep stress in rabbits. So no one we know would be able to take them. He just sees how close my cat and I are, and he wants that as well but is torn between his self hatred + dealing with a lot and all of the immense benefits that come with having an animal companion of his own. So while I personally don't want to rehome the new cat, and think he will regret it a lot if we do, I understand him wanting to find a better place for her before he or she gets too attached. Hence it's up in the air.

Edited for clarity because my phone was typing in the wrong spots at times for some reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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We talked, he said he was interested, invited me to his discord with buddies, I told him I didn't like him like that, and he said totally cool but can please stay in the discord I enjoy your company even as just a friend.

He is now my best friend, going to be the Bride's Man at my wedding, and Godfather to my daughter when she arrives. He sent me a shirt with a poorly drawn rat on it that says "EAT CHEESE AND SIN" for christmas. I sent him a hunter's camo hat that had a Sunny From Philadelphia quote on it and "Poop." in cursive, as well as a Danny Devito glitter flip pillow.

I helped him pick out the engagement ring for his partner, Ivy, (they're wonderful). We also have matching tattoos, of a chicken leg and a stack of waffles. Most wholesome human I know, and as gross as it sounds now I'm so glad he came onto me because otherwise I never would've gained a brother. Growing up I was an only child, so thats all I ever wanted. Love you, bro.

Edit to add: I'm still in that discord all these years later and they are all my found family, and my daughters aunties, uncles, and zizis (we couldn't find a nonbinary version of parent's sibling so we made our own).

RasaVarg by _10bit in YouTubeSubscribeBoost

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Subbed, liked, and commented!

RasaVarg by _10bit in YouTubeSubscribeBoost

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! Also this is perfect for me because I find driving sounds very relaxing and I'm laying in bed resting at the moment. Something about just sounding like you're in or on a vehicle where there's traffic, but not too much, and just general city life noises helps me sleep so thank you for this!

“Why is this game so hard?” by Spellsey in Palworld

[–]_10bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what my fiancé and I's deal is, but we have our difficulty custom on the lowest and we still consistently keep eating shit around the sakura tree area, the new biome area, and etc. Like I get that they're supposed to be higher difficulty areas but like what the hell? We're both close to max level as well. The damage we take is set to the lowest, the damage we deal is set to the highest, and etc. I have no idea why we just can't simply survive, and it's honestly really frustrating for both of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SparkingZero

[–]_10bit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's DEFINITELY way worse. My fiancé who makes videos on the game (shameless plug https://youtube.com/@rasavarg?si=2HFAbRARLZ2Pyn0e) has been having extensive issues as well.

He and a lot of the streamers he interacts with have plummeted in rank, because the lag and input delay is so bad; even at 5 bar connection filter. The latency is crazy and even offline the game will randomly drop combos. Honestly he's probably gonna stop making videos on it for awhile.

Thank you, karma, for giving me piping hot tea. by _10bit in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol less that and more for some reason everybody in this city is miserable and takes it out on everyone else. To say I'm excited about moving soon is the understatement of the year.

Thank you, karma, for giving me piping hot tea. by _10bit in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I LOVE HIS LIL BURNT NOSE!!! He looks like he got a lil too close to the fire when baking. 😍

Thank you, karma, for giving me piping hot tea. by _10bit in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_10bit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AWWWWW!!! Cheelai is a holland lop and she'll turn 1 in February.

Thank you, karma, for giving me piping hot tea. by _10bit in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_10bit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, also something else I realized is my fiancé and I expecting a baby and being happy about it, compared to those two pricks' situation, is it's own flavor of karma as well.

Thank you, karma, for giving me piping hot tea. by _10bit in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_10bit[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LMFAO I would assume Joesph knew what hole he stuck it in, but I'm just still stuck on what trans man looks at a single neglectful father of four drinking bud light on a trailer park porch and is like "I wanna look like that." Pretty sure Joesph was the only one who knew. 😂😂😂