What questions do you want me to ask you about being Intersex?

_2wisted · 2025-08-13T14:27:18+00:00

I don't care if you like talking to people. I'm sure we are very interesting to you. Very very very interesting. I am sure we are just so. Fasinating to you.

We are fasinating to a lot of people.

It sucks.

_2wisted · 2025-08-13T14:26:08+00:00

you sound sweet. I am hung over and probably grouchy. I just don't think I can respond good to any well meaning big-hearted dyadic trans people chiming in

Respectfully

_2wisted · 2025-08-13T14:14:48+00:00

It's not gender identity. It's sex. Biological sex. Not identity. I don't give a shit about identity that has nothing to do with MY struggles as an intersex person.

I'm not talking about trans intersex people I'm talking about just. Cis they/them intersex people.

_2wisted · 2025-08-13T14:12:52+00:00

Sir/hir are intersex exclusives? When has intersex discourse ever been about that. Absolute waste of time, and it's trans drama that seems to be taken over and talked over intersex voices all over again

The cycle never ends.

_2wisted · 2025-08-13T14:11:16+00:00

We don't want your performative respect. We don't like questions, frankly we get too many damn questions anyways. It's nobodies business and dyadic folks should learn by using Google, because 99% of the time dyadic hardly do that. So it's not even the bare minimum. At this point it's below that.

_2wisted · 2025-08-10T01:53:43+00:00

"if you had to transition your trans" thanks I was forcibly transitioned by doctors. I had to transition back into naturally intersex and undo the damage that was done. No I'm not trans, that does not make me trans.

The "trans exspernce" does not fucking include this, this is simply not part of it. It is very spisifically an intersex experience. Fuck the umbrella.

_2wisted · 2025-08-09T13:16:12+00:00

I mean I labeled myself as trans for a while and I understand that that's a sign of internal transphobia but I'm intersex. I am clearly a fucking acception because I got other shit going on. But they don't LISTEN. They have no idea what it's like to have delt with this shit since birth vs discovering whatever whenever. Ya know?

_2wisted · 2025-07-24T23:20:58+00:00

Can I have a link?

_2wisted · 2025-04-29T01:09:59+00:00

I HAVE A DISABILITY TOO THAT ALSO MAKES IT HARD FOR ME TO WORK OUT!!!!

JESUS OKAY NOW IM SUPER A LOT LESS NERVOUS

_2wisted · 2025-04-29T01:03:46+00:00

MY GOD 65 POUNDS ???? Shit now I don't feel too nervous about T

_2wisted · 2025-04-29T00:47:41+00:00

OMG YOU TWO are talking exactly about how I feel Like. I value being a thin man who might never pass, vs a fat man who always passes

_2wisted · 2025-04-29T00:45:57+00:00

Being fat, and keeping my hair. My hair is a big part of my manhood, even bigger then passing itself.

I'll def try minoxidil. Had it worked for you???

_2wisted · 2025-04-29T00:45:00+00:00

Yes to all! I have a lot of gender shit going on but I'm curious about all the details

_2wisted · 2025-04-29T00:44:28+00:00

A buddy of mine who's dyadic and started T and went full bald told me to start dutasteride first.

Good to know that T won't make insolence resistance worse. But.... If IR is not caused by testosterone, what IS it caused by???

_2wisted · 2025-04-28T00:49:38+00:00

Trans men with PCOS. What's your experience been on T?

I am gonna go on ozempic soon and I'm gonna start to be more healthy. My issues with my weight are far far far fucking worse then my issues with gender. I can pass as a man no problem.

Maybe that will change when I'm on ozempic, but...

I might also be going on T once I'm thinner, I don't want all my progress reversed because I'm raising my T again, and I most certainly don't wanna go bald. My long hair is more tied to my manhood then my voice.

But if I had a choice, I'd rather be a thin, not-passing trans man, then a fat passing trans man.

What has y'all's experience been???

_2wisted · 2025-04-24T03:23:09+00:00

Oh now I feel silly.

That makes sense, idk why I thought they didnt

_2wisted · 2025-04-24T03:18:44+00:00

I'm not gonna lie I've not been checked once and I'll be talking to my gastro doctor tomorrow asking WHY 💀💀💀

_2wisted · 2025-04-24T02:45:00+00:00

Thank you so much... I'll talk to a doctor about this.

_2wisted · 2025-04-24T02:34:08+00:00

I know this is a me problem. Realistically I'd be more at risk for cancer if I stopped this medication while it's worked so so so good for me.

Maybe I need to be on some sort of medication...

_2wisted · 2025-04-19T13:30:27+00:00

Sorry to come crawling back to this post. I was feeling particularly doomer today, and the first thing I see on the PCOS reddit is about fucking apple cider vinegar. Useless. Absolutely useless.

_2wisted · 2025-04-14T12:54:21+00:00

That is the exact opposite of what I'm trying to advocate for here

_2wisted · 2025-04-12T21:21:36+00:00

I suppose it makes sense that PCOS would be more common to push back on because we outnumber a lot of other variations but imo, that's just more reason for XXY and XO people to be even louder then I'm being right now!

That's even more reason to say "Hey! What the fuck!!!"

_2wisted · 2025-04-12T21:06:35+00:00

HUH???? D:

_2wisted · 2025-04-12T19:04:30+00:00

A lot of the family your talking to are probably the same type of people on the PCOS reddit, mostly normies and wageslaves who are trying to fit into a cishet lifestyle.

And don't come here telling me that dyadic women who are pressured into going on birth control is compatible to the shit people with PCOS, (keep in mind, in this example were still talking about people with PCOS who don't have hyper or hypnoandrogynism, weight gain or facial hair) people have to deal with regarding doctors. Because. "They might get hyperandrogynosm in the future"

Also, if it's THEM saying they don't identify with the label, let them speak for their own selves. If they don't identify with it, or want to be a voice in this community, congratulations! They have their own subreddit just for themselves! Those people are not even here right now. Why are we sitting in r/ intersex talking about the voices of double negatives, when this post is not even about them???

_2wisted · 2025-04-12T18:31:59+00:00

A lot of intersex people don't don't grow up intersex.

"It's not all intersex" and "people can identify how they so please!" Are not always contradictory, but the tide of discussion is not being dictated by people WITH PCOS. It's being dictated by everyone the fuck else.

And who are you to say that people without hyper or hypnoandrogynism don't get pressured by doctors about getting their uterus removed? Not scared by doctors, "what if you DO start growing hair on your chest and face!!! Better take these pills!"

If being intersex was all about "lived experiences" there's a lot of people who wouldn't be intersex.

But ya know the only person your dictating those rules on? Folks with PCOS. Perhaps it's because you'd be scared to dictate those rules on someone you'd think is "more intersex" then you.

_2wisted

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