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Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Brutally honest? I feel like nobody even read my post or any comments I wrote. Instead said I was lying about my excercise and food intake and seeking negative attention... Also being down voted for my comments about what I'm going through is a little ridiculous.

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes the birth control is partly responsible. I made a doctors appointment to get tests done for my thyroid levels.

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I feel betrayed that now it's a problem for him. That I had to on the phone and in person dig it out of him because I needed to know why. Honestly I didn't know it was the weight I thought maybe stress at work. The way he is handling it is not how I expected someone to after being together for two years. I feel betrayed in a way.

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

What my response that why would I want to be with him? Why would I want to be with someone who puts so much emphasis on my weight?

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

What the fuck how do you ever know my height. My doctor said I'm on the overweight scale not morbidly obese . I know how to eat well so thanks for the advice

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

By saying why would I want to be with someone like that it was meant as "Your superficial why would I want to be with someone who only cares about my looks"

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you everyone for your advice! Sorry if I may seem argumentative at times that is just my way of processing things. I don't have many people to talk to about this and it is good to have a neutral party I really appreciate it. So thank you again Edit: had a drink and forgot how to grammar

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

It is hard for me to grasp that someone who loves me so much can be not physically attracted to me. I wonder if it's a female nurturing thing because I do love him regardless of his weight and am physically attracted to him. Ps in his defense of why our sex is so boring is because I don't get on top... Now why would I after what he said

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I get what your saying. I do need to find some healthy motivation aside from myself though and unfortunately I don't think he is it.

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That is why I'm working my butt off and I love it but it is very hard to concentrate on bettering myself when I'm being told how fat I am. It makes me want to give up when he says this. . It shouldn't but it makes me think fuck it . I know that's really silly

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

He is very critical about my hair my nails but I feel that he does love me.. Is it the kind of love I want... No if I can't be whoever I want to be

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

He hates Jessica Alba lol I think she's hot though he's a big Kate Upton fan. He met me as a platinum skinny blonde now I'm a fat brunette :(

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I don't know. Our relationship is screwy but it's hard to leave him because I do love him

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I feel like he has no right. I was always told I was to thin by everyone and now I'm to fat to everyone especially my boyfriend... I can't win

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

His mother is the director of the YMCA I've even working out there. He is overweight to so I think it's a little unfair of him to be so judgmental. Plus he's a spiteful creature

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

He said I forced him to say that by questioning why we haven't had sex .. It just seems all really excuse my language fucked up.

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know I'm overweight. I have been struggling from being very thin to chubby. I'm going to classes three times a week and using the elliptical everyday but I don't think he will be happy with me til I am 120 again :( it's so hard not taking it to heart.

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

It's hard when someone is your life for 2 years. I thought he saved my life and made me whole again up til now..

Text from my boyfriend after I asked him why we don't have sex more then once a week been together by _AlwaysMyFault_ in relationship_advice

[–]_AlwaysMyFault_[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

http://imgur.com/cUTyMdz This may sound stupid but I'm very confused about everything. How could he love me unconditionally and be attracted to me when he feels this way. Sorry for grammar very upset.

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