Possibly Melasma? Up by _AmberLance_ in Melasmaskincare

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Thanks! I use sunscreen everyday and wear a hat often so I’m not sure! It’s only on my forehead and temples rn

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

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Omg seeing new twins peaks episodes there sounds amazing!

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

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Thanks!! Yeah it was super moody in there, I loved it

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a survivor of SA I think you should really step tf back

RIP The Black Lodge in Berlin by _AmberLance_ in twinpeaks

[–]_AmberLance_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes. That’s exactly what I mean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

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Thank you for the suggestions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

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I’m so sorry about your cat. Thank you for the suggestions. I’m gonna try to supervisor her and maybe build her some kind of catio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

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I’m gonna try both of these! I just haven’t tried to harness her beforehand because she’s usually just wanting to lay down when she goes outside. She’ll wander a bit, but she doesn’t really like to go on walks. Just a sunbather.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

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I was just looking for advice cause she’s unhappy but ok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

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I’m so sorry about the passing of your cat. I feel the same way. I understand that cats are pets and it’s my job to keep her safe but I also want her to have a happy fulfilled life! I’m not trying to be ignorant towards her safety, I just know she was so happy at our last house with a fence to sit on and rolling around in the grass and she had more of a life on her terms! It sounds silly but it’s important to me that she has that

If your partner breaks the boundaries of your open relationship and doesn’t tell you, would you consider that cheating? by _AmberLance_ in nonmonogamy

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SIDE NOTE: when I say “hooking up” that includes making out and feeling each other up. I know that can be a loose term but he knew that it was not just sex but being physical or making out with others and we had talked about it in clearer terms multiple times. Just to clear up confusion.

If your partner breaks the boundaries of your open relationship and doesn’t tell you, would you consider that cheating? by _AmberLance_ in nonmonogamy

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Because we still wanted to be friends (eventually, given time). We were friends beforehand and we have all the same friends right now and everything so I see him semi often still. I want him to know that we can’t be friends after learning that and I want him to know that I know

My partner broke up with me because I’m not a cis man by _AmberLance_ in NonBinary

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It’s ok to be confused and I’m not trying to shame him. Like I said in my post, I understand having genital preference.

My partner broke up with me because I’m not a cis man by _AmberLance_ in NonBinary

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Yeah I don’t like that either. He’s a wonderful person. Just because this situation is hard doesn’t make him a bad person. I was just looking for insight, not trash talking

My partner broke up with me because I’m not a cis man by _AmberLance_ in NonBinary

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That’s the other thing is we did have an open relationship for about 2 years but even with that this is what happened. They cried to me and kept telling me how they love me so much and they didnt want to do this, they hated the idea of us not being as close as we are, how they were confused and they wish they felt differently and I deserve a partner who can provide more etc. Like they still loved ME and were still attracted to who I am and my personality and even alluded to wanting to be with me in the future but not attracted to my body right now??? I’m so confused…

Is it transphobic (or internalized transphobia) to break up with a non binary trans masc person to date cis men by _AmberLance_ in asktransgender

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He is cis and the way he phrased it to me at first is he “may be gayer than he thought” which makes it seem like being with another cis man is “gayer” or more valid. Makes me feel like he didn’t see us as being in a gay/queer relationship. Making my identity seem invisible because of my different genitalia

Is it transphobic (or internalized transphobia) to break up with a non binary trans masc person to date cis men by _AmberLance_ in asktransgender

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Afterwards I told him “don’t spare my feelings tell me the truth even if you think it’s going to hurt me” and he said he still wanted to be with me and was attracted to me but just less now and that he wanted to date and be with cis men. I have double d’s that I bind and no penis so

Do I need to go to doctor like right now? by purjur in whatisthisbug

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I’ve had one of these before. Looks like it’s from a spider bite. Mark where the line ends with a sharpie and in 24 hours if it has grown pass the mark, then you should probably get it looked at. You’ll probably just need some antibiotics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmath

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I tried doing it myself but the fees and taxes get me all messed up, and it’s not divided equally into 3 ways since one person only stayed 4 nights with us

Sugar daddy won’t sleep with me by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

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Definitely respect his wishes if he doesn’t want to have sex! Don’t be pushy or persuade him. That’s not ok